Kingdom Sexuality
Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up. From interviews, to "sex-timonies", and everything in-between- this is the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
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Struggle to know when to go about talking to your kids about porn? Or HOW you're even going to go about having that conversation?? Tune into our latest episode with Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures as she unpacks it all!! Links from today’s episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Good Pictures Bad Pictures Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr. Canopy defendyoungminds.com @defendyoungminds Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Have you ever asked yourself, after consuming some form of media, "Does this count as porn?". Tune into this episode to hear the KS team unpack this! Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this episode series on pornography! Use the code KS30 to get your first 30 days free. Links from today’s episode: Covenant Eyes: KS30 for your first 30 days free! Plugged In IMDB VidAngel 197: Masturbation episode Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
The KS team is joined by Dr. Andrew Bauman, a licensed mental health counselor and writer whose work focuses on sexual health, abuse, and wholeness with men. Don't miss this incredible interview! Huge thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to try it out for 30 days free! Links from today’s episode: Unwanted Jay Stringer My Counsellor Online :get $25 off when you use our link Covenant Eyes: KS30 For 30 Days Free Stumbling Towards Wholeness Birds & Bees Course KINGDOM20 for 20% off How Not To Be An *ss Christiancc.org Andrewjbauman.com Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Please keep in mind that this episode deals with some raw, honest moments within the porn industry and may not be suitable for everyone to listen to. If in doubt, pray about it and consider listening to the episode together with your spouse. Alana and Tiera had the pleasure of interviewing ex-porn star Brittni De La Mora whose incredible testimony is changing lives! Tune in now! Links from today’s episode: Arise by Covenant Eyes Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!) Love Always Ministries Body Count Special thank you to this series sponsor, Covenant Eyes! Protect your devices and find freedom today. Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Want to safeguard your home’s digital spaces? Then it's time to look into Covenant Eyes! Use our code KS30 to get your first 30 days free! Kyle and Tiera had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Dave Currie, a certified Sexual Recovery Therapist and a registered clinician with the American Association of Sexual Addiction Therapy! You won't want to miss it! Links from today’s episode: IA test Dr. Currie’s website: doingfamilyright.com ReGroup for Men Flair for Women The Ideal "I Do" - Building Strong: Pursuing the Marriage You’ll Love Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Huge thank you to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this upcoming pornography series! Whether porn is in your story or not, this series is going to be beneficial for you to listen to! We’re thrilled to partner with Covenant Eyes to offer our listeners 30 days free when you sign up using our promo code KS30! Whether you're looking to protect yourself, your kids, or even your workplace, Covenant Eyes has you covered with its powerful accountability and filtering features. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Join Unite & Ignite Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this incredible PART TWO episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it. Links from today’s episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye 7 Primal Questions Question Time Stamps: 1:20 - Is there a place for me to be a pastor if I had sex before marriage? 5:25 - Is it okay to separate or leave my spouse because of porn/erotica usage? 12:17 - How to get my spouse to invest more emotionally in our marriage? I’m tired of doing it all 17:18 - Lots of questions about why churches don’t talk about sex in a healthy way but more in a fear mongering/purity culture way. How do you think churches should handle speaking about sex? 33:45 - Why is monogamy the norm when in reality it’s a new concept? 39:15 - How to create mentorship/discipleship opportunities for couples? Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it. Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Through Grief Episode chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye Time Stamps: 10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other 16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I’m married? 22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that? 24:50 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)? 30:58 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are biblical but I’m hesitant? Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Can being mindful of your body and surroundings lead to a better sex life?? Tune in to hear Dr. Lori Brotto share how you can connect better with your intimate life! Links from today’s episode: Better Sex Through Mindfulness Lori's Instagram: @drloribrotto loribrotto.com @ubcshr Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible patrons for choosing this month's Patron's Choice episode! Become a patron today for some amazing perks and support KS! "What was a time in your guys’ marriages when sex felt like a chore?" You'll hear the KS team answer that question and MORE when it comes to turning sex from mundane to magical. Links from today's episode: Awaken Love Come As You Are Mindset Reset episode Better Help My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Today's episode is full of incredible wisdom from Mark and Jill Savage. The testimony they share is so powerful- full of wisdom and insight on what it looks like to wait well in a hard season. Tune in and hear how God moved and turned their tragedy into testimony! Links from today’s episode: Mark and Jill Website (markandjill.com) Rebuilding Trust Guide rebuildingtrust.us Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Episode 200 is here! Whether you've been listening to the podcast since the beginning, or if this is the first episode of ours you've listened to- we're so grateful you're here! Tune into this episode where Dan Purcell, from Get Your Marriage On! interviews Alana about what it means to cherish your spouse. Links from today's episode: Ruthless Elimination Of Hurry Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Today's episode is another classic Q&A episode where we take questions you guys have sent us and we discuss our answers. You won't want to miss this spicy episode! 2:00 How do I help my wife be more confident to initiate more? 8:40 How do you maintain intimacy through stressful times? 11:10 How do I help my wife get out of her head during sex? 14:55 How to not be grossed out by bodily fluids in mouth during oral sex? 19:07 How soon can/should sex be re-introduced postpartum? 20:02 We struggle to communicate what we need/want. Any tips? 25:50 How do I talk to my spouse about doing something new? 28:43 Is filming sex with my spouse okay? 31:37 How to keep sex fresh when TTC for 2 years? 35:16 Advice for a husband and wife that want to finish together? 40:16 How do you know if you’re orgasming? 42:41 Our “long sex” is great but we don’t always have time, how to have good Links from today’s episode: Flirtation Experiment- Lisa Jacobson, Phylicia Masonheimer Awaken Love- Ruth Buezis My Counselor Online Better Sex Through Mindfulness Dr. Lorri Brotto Coconu Lubricant Her Turn Sex Challenge Anatomy Of Us: Makin’ Sex Tapes Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this fun Q&A where the Kingdom Sexuality team asks each other some surprise questions they've always wanted to ask each other. Plus, the answer questions followers on Instagram sent in about the future of KS! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you use our link!) 177: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire His and Hers Sex Challenges “It’s Getting Hot In Here” Sex Challenge Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
What role, if any, does masturbation play in marriage? Does the Bible talk about this topic? You won't want to miss this one! Links from today’s episode: Dwell app: dwellbible.com/kingdom 106: Opposites: Location with Abe and Elaine Romaro Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Have a second? We'd love your feedback on our podcast! Podcast Feedback Survey
Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram! QUESTION TIME STAMPS: 4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?” 7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?” 9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?” 16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?” 17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?” 19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?” 23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.” 24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?” 27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.” 29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.” 31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?” 32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there” Links from today’s episode: Vaginismus Episode @painfree.intimacy Let’s Get Checked: KINGDOM for 25% off Christian Counselling $25 off your first month with our link! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire The Penis Book KS Prayer Bundle Better Sex Through Mindfulness Starting Life Together Bundle Ultimate Wedding Night Guide Awaken Love Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Is it time to do a "mindset reset" around sex? Let's make the second half of this year incredible for our marriages and intimate lives as we reflect and introspect on our thought life. Links from today’s episode: Awaken Love Christian Counselling Sex Challenge Bundle Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible patrons for choosing today's episode! If you want to learn more about the Patreon perks go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wonder what the top three sex positions are? And some unique techniques to take them to the next level?? Then you're not going to want to miss this one! Links from today’s episode: Intimately Us App Married Dance Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
The KS team is joined by Sofia Friesen, Canadian Program Director of Ally Global, and she chats with the KS team about the incredible work that Ally is doing to prevent human trafficking, how it actually happens, and how you can keep your family safe from it. Links from today’s episode: Ally.org @allyglobal Thepreventionproject.ca KS donation link Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online, is BACK in another incredible episode with Alana and Tiera where he unpacks sexual disorders and dysfunctions. You don’t want to miss it! Vaginismus: 8:45 Sexual Aversion: 10:12 Orgasms: 12:08 Orgasm Disorder: 30:15 Links from today’s episode: The previous episode with Josh Spurlock My Counselor Online (use our link to get $25 off your first month!) Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible patrons who chose today's episode topic! Head to patron.com/kingdomsexuality to become a patron today! Tune in as the KS team tackles the big question: is sex a need? Kyle, Tiera, and Alana each had their own thoughts and kept their notes to themselves until they hit record! Links from today’s episode: Come As You Are Book Awaken Love Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
In a season where intercourse isn't an option? Not sure what to do? Or, do you want to learn how to add other intimacy options to your repertoire? Tune in as the KS team chats about some options! Links from today’s episode: His Pleasure Sex Challenge Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly! 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared” 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities? 22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually” 25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.” 29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that? 34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc) 38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually? 42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life? 45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences? Links from today’s episode: My Counsellor Online My Counsellor Online YouTube Josh Spurlock.com Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Continuing on with the premarital conversation from a few weeks ago but in a new light: "what if we've already had sex?" Today's guest and former KS host, Rusti, talks us through her story and journey to finding healing from the shame of her past. Links from today’s episode: Intimate Issues Starting Life Together Bundle Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
The Purity Culture conversation continues! This time Alana and Tiera are joined by Hanna from the 'Say What?' podcast! They chat purity culture, vaginismus, pleasure, orgasms, and more! Links from today’s episode: Hanna Say What? Website Hanna’s IG Subscribe to Hanna's YouTube Channel Her Turn Sex Challenge His Pleasure Sex Challenge Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
So many of us enter into marriage only to then realize that how sex was taught to us- impacted us! Is pleasure possible after purity culture? Tune in to find out! Links from today’s episode: Episode with Jess Seitz Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
The newlywed season is such a sweet season in life! We get this precious time to learn so much about each other. But how do we navigate the difficulties well? Tune in to find out! Links from today’s episode: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire Love Language Quizzes Engagement Guide Wedding Night Guide Newlywed Guide Starting Life Together Bundle Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
There can be so much excitement when it comes to the wedding night but alongside the joy and eagerness, anxiety and fear of the unknown can creep in. Join the KS team as they answer questions engaged couples sent in when it comes to the wedding night! Links from today’s episode: Engagement Guide Wedding Night Guide Newlywed Guide Starting Life Together Bundle Coconu Lube - use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Are you engaged and wondering how to make your future marriage one that is set up for success? This episode is for you! Plus, check out the resource the KS team just released! Get the guides individually for $47 or the bundle of all three for $97! The first 10 people to order the bundle using the code LIFETOGETHER3 will get all 3 bundles for the price of one! Links from today’s episode: The 'Starting Life Together' Bundle The Ultimate Engagement Guide The Ultimate Wedding Night Guide The Ultimate Newlywed Guide Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Ever feel like you're drowning trying to do it all? Drink enough water, get exercise, be a good wife and mother, and still get some sleep? Join the KS team as they unpack whether or not you have to try to get it all done! Links from today’s episode: HER TURN Sex Challenge: use the code HERTURNPOD to get it 50% off Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Whether we're aware of it or not, what we do forms us. For better or worse. So what habits are forming you? Tune in to hear the KS team share some healthy habits you can implement TODAY! Links from today’s episode: Practicing The Way Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
After being freshly pregnant and now in the postpartum season Alana, and the KS team, answer YOUR questions on pregnancy and postpartum! Links from today’s episode: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Get ready for a spicy conversation where Rachel & Zach interviewed the KS team about intimacy in marriage and what the word of God has to say about sex! Time to experience the fullness of God's design for marriage and intimacy! Links from today’s episode: Purpose Podcast Faith Promise Church Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing pastor Ben Hilson in today's episode! We had compiled a list of questions you guys had sent us and we bombarded him with them all! Link from today's episode: PortKellsChurch.com Pastor Ben's IG Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Does your desire for sex happen suddenly, or does it take your body a bit of time to warm up to the idea? It turns out both are normal! Tune in to hear more!! Link from today's episode: Come As You Are book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Shout out to our Patron's for deciding on today's episode! If you'd like a say in what episodes are released consider becoming a patron today! Does modesty look difference once we're married? Do boundaries and rules we had while we were dating/engaged still stand? Tune in to find out! Link from today's episode: Kim & Darlene Interview Kait’s IG post Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Is there a type of sex you'd like to try but you're not sure how to go about asking your spouse for it? Maybe you'd like to try something a bit more rough or passionate, or slow and sensual- what does that conversation look like?? Tune in to find out! Links from today’s episode: Better Help Counseling Types of Sex episode Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Ever wondered what types of sex are out there? Slow sex, quickies, passionate sex, and more- the KS team chats through what each kind is and how to initiate that type of sex! Links from today’s episode: Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Rundown Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex episode Intimacy Without Intercourse Foreplay Episode Awaken Love book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Join the KS team as they answer questions rapid fire as they come in on Instagram! They cover topics like "how do i get my wife to swallow?", "how do i increase my desire for sex as a busy mom?", and more! Links from today’s episode: Fellatio Episode Foreplay Episode Intimately Us app 31 Nights of Intimacy Ebook Awaken Love book The Penis Book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Shout out to our incredible Patrons for choosing this weeks episode! If you'd like to have a say in what episodes we release, become a patron! Ever wonder what should be done with your hair... down there?? Tune into this highly requested episode where the KS team chats through: what you can do with your pubic hair, do you have to do anything with it, and can going bare be linked to watching porn? Links from today’s episode: Mistletoe Episode Manscape Trimmer Bikini Line Trimmer Razors Laser Hair Removal Device Get on the waitlist for March's Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Struggle to know how to have those conversations with your kiddos? The KS team got to sit down with Mary Flo and Megan, owners of the company Birds & Bees, which is an online course all about equipping you as a parent to tackle the talk of the birds and bees! If you have kiddos, you need to tune in! Link from today's episode: Birds & Bees Course (KINGDOM20 for 20% off!) Guys Stuff book Care & Keeping of You book Birds-bees.com Get on the waitlist for March’s Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Ready to spice up your Valentine's Day?? We, the KS team, have just the thing to help! With the sex challenge beginning on Valentine's Day, our desire is to bring fun, exploration, and pleasure to new heights as you journey through these 14 days of turning up the heat! Links from today’s episode: Red Hot Valentine’s Sex Challenge: use code REDHOTPODCAST to get it 50% off! Got Questions BDSM Link Day 5 position Get on the waitlist for March's Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
There are times when our spouse does something small and simple and it means the WORLD to us. Likewise, sometimes little things can be a big thing in a negative way! Tune in as the KS team shares both sides AND some intimacy examples as well! Get on the waitlist for March's Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Shout out to our Patreon's for choosing this weeks episode! Join the KS team as they tackle a big topic: period sex. Do you have questions around the topic of sex while the woman is on her menstrual cycle? The team answers questions like: doesn't the Bible say period sex is bad? How do you keep things less messy? Are there risks to it? Link from today's episode: GotQuestions .org link Nixit Canada: https://nixit.ca/?rstr=28289 Nixit USA: https://nixit.com/?rstr=29068 Use code KINGDOM for 15% off! Splash Blanket BeLoved Fertility (if you have questions for Tiera) Get on the waitlist for February’s Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Buckle up for this incredibly insightful episode where Tiera takes the lead and gives us the run down of numerous birth control options! If you're in the process of deciding what's right for you- hopefully this will help! *disclaimer: we are not medical professionals, you should consult your doctor for more information* Link from today's episode: BeLoved Fertility (where you can contact Tiera with questions) TempDrop Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 11% off! Mira Fertility Use code KINGDOM for $40 off your order! Daysy code DaysyUS+835 for $20 off! Take Charge of Your Fertility book SKYN Condoms Get on the waitlist for February’s Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Struggle to initiate sex in your marriage? Or are you the spouse that is always initiating?? Tune in to hear Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about some practical ways you can learn to initiate and what ways women vs men prefer when it comes to this! Links from today's episode: Awaken Love The Flirtation Experiment Better Help: Counseling Get on the waitlist for February’s Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
You're not going to miss this incredible interview Alana and Tiera had with Francie Winslow. She get's vulnerable and shares her journey towards healing from purity culture, how husbands can help their wives desire intimacy, and how we can experience pleasure everywhere. Links from today's episode: Heaven In Your Home Podcast FrancieWinslow.com Get on the waitlist for February’s Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Is it time to do a check-in on your communication? Wanting to take your communication to the next level? Tune into this episode and start the new year off with some killer skills in this area! Links from today's episode: Better Help 2024 Marriage Resolution Guide Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Merry Christmas from all of us on the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tune in as we chat all things giving and receiving! Are you a cheerful giver? Do you receive gifts well? Or compliments?? Listen to the episode to hear more! Links from today's episode: Better Help Love Language Gift Guide episode Get on the waitlist for January's Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Join the KS team as they chat all things making out. What if my spouse doesn't like making out? Is it possible for making out to not lead to sex? What if my spouse has bad oral hygiene? They tackle those questions and MORE! Links from today's episode: Better HelpBirds & Bees code KINGDOM20 for 20% off! Truly Lip Salve!!! code KS15 for 15% off! Lip stuff Kyle mentioned from Sephora Lip stuff Kyle mentioned (but a gloss) from Sephora Get on the waitlist for January's Unite & Ignite membership!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
The KS team is so excited to bring you another sex challenge episode!! This is the 2nd Sexmas episode, but this one comes with an exciting resource and a special discount for you!! The 12 Days Of Sexmas: use the code HOLLY for 50% off!! (discount expires Dec 15) Links from today's episode: 2022 Sex Challenge episode Intimately Us App Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Huge THANK YOU to our incredible Patreon pals for choosing this weeks episode! Want to know more about Patreon and the perks?? Tap here! Have you ever thought about planning your spouse's Christmas gift around their love language?? Tune into this episode to hear some great ideas of how you could do this! Links mentioned it today's episode: Intimately Us App Every Love (code KS69 to get $30 off!) Mentionables (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off) Adventure Challenge (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off) Dwell Coconu (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off) Natura Soy (code KINGDOM15 for 15% off) Married Dance (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off) Covenant Spice Amazon Store Front Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Not sure what to do when it comes to foreplay? Wondering questions like: "What can/can't we do?" or "How long should we do foreplay for?" and "What do our spouses even want us to do??" Tune in and the KS team will answer those questions for you! Links from today's episode: Oral sex episodes Anatomy episode Anal sex article Coconu Lubricant (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY gets you 15% off!) Sex Toy episode Keeping Score episode Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website YouTube Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
The KS Team did something new this week- you might have seen it on Instagram! During the episode, the created an Instagram story asking for questions that they would be answering LIVE during the recording episode! Nothing pre-planned, they just answered whatever questions came at them... and they were spicy ones! *the foreplay episode mentioned is going to be releasing next week! Links from todays episode: Awaken Love Grief episode Intimacy and kids episode Birds and Bees Course (code KINGDOM20 gets your 20% off!) Good Pictures Bad Pictures The Penis Book Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
How do we navigate the seasons of our life when we're not feeling our best? Whether it's due to stress, weight gain, hair loss, or if you're in a time of postpartum healing- we all struggle with this at times. Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about ways to combat these feelings when they come! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana and Tiera did with author of Awaken Love, Ruth Beuzis! They tackle topics of duty sex, sex as a need vs want, and more! Purchase Awaken Love here! Find Ruth here! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Special thanks to today's podcast sponsor: Mentionables! Use the code KINGDOM20 to get 20% off!! Have questions around the topic of lingerie and boudoir photography? Prepare to have them answered in this hilarious and casual chat with Alana, Kyle, and Tiera! Links from today's episode: Mentionables Honouring Intimates Just Between Us app Married Dance: use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Anatomy of Us- Makin' Sex Tapes Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Keeping in with the Spiritual Intimacy theme, Alana had the pleasure of interviewing Aaron and Jennifer Smith! Authors of The Marriage Gift, Aaron and Jennifer chat about their journey of spiritual intimacy and prayer and how intimate but necessary it is. Check out their website here! Find them on IG here! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
A successful marriage involves more than just two individuals; it’s a partnership with each other and with God. This partnership is fortified through prayer! So join Alana, Tiera, and Kyle as they discuss the importance of prayer in a Christian marriage! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one! Links from today's episode: 30 Prayers for Your Wife ebook 30 Prayers for Your Husband ebook
Attending church together is a priority for many couples, and is an important one. But how else can you up your spiritual intimacy? Join the KS Team as they dive into really practical ways that you can have more spiritual intimacy in your marriage! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Spiritual intimacy is one of the most important, yet least talked about, aspects of marital health! Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what spiritual intimacy is, what is a Christ-centered marriage, and what roadblocks try to keep couples from cultivating this in their marriage. Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Trigger warning: the KS team talks about miscarriage during this episode and wanted to disclose that and send love to those who have experienced loss or those currently going through it. Shout out to the patrons who chose this weeks episode! Want to become a patron and get all the sweet perks? Tap here! This episode is a tough one, but one that's been requested for a long time. Praying that it's helpful in whatever you've walked through, or can help in the future. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
You asked and they answered!! Alana, Tiera, and Kyle answer an assortment of questions sent in by YOU, their listeners and followers! You won't want to miss it! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides! Links from today's episode: Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Flirting seems to be so important at the beginning of a relationship- pursuing one another, heightened excitement, and so much passion! But once we get married some of that starts to change, tune into the episode to hear why and how to get the fun and passion back! Links from today's episode: The Flirtation Experiment Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
The KS Team has an exciting announcement... they're releasing a brand new MEMBERSHIP!! You'll hear all about it in this episode where Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go over all of the exciting perks that will be fun for you and your spouse AND will increase connection! Want to join the club?? https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/uniteandignite Use the code UIEARLYBIRDPODCAST and get 20% off during the early bird window! We can't wait for you to join!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Is pain during sex normal? What is vaginismus? How can husbands support their wives in this journey? Alana and Tiera chat with Jessica Seitz and they blast through those those questions and more in this incredible interview! Jessica's Instagram: @painfree.intimacy Jessica's website: painfreeintimacy.com Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible Patrons who picked this weeks topic!! If you're interested in becoming a patron or learning more about Patreon go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Spice It Up FREEBIE! Opposites: Location Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode! Shout out to our incredible Patron's who chose this weeks episode topic! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!! Links from today's episode: ONE Extraordinary Marriage Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com God Sex and Your Marriage book Java with Juli Podcast
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-loving, marriage-equipping, and very wise couple! So tune in and enjoy the wealth of knowledge that Kim and Darlene bring! Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today's episode: Kim and Darlene's Website Books mentioned on today's episode: Awaken Love The 5 Love Needs of Men & Women The Gift of Sex Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Eight Dates Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Young Kids Good Pictures Bad Picture - Junior
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU asked over on Instagram. Dr. Josh is a wealth of knowledge, you're not going to want to miss this one!! - What is counseling actually like? (5:30) - When to go to counseling? (8:00) - What if one spouse wants to go and the other refuses? (9:20) - What should/does premarital counseling look like? (14:00) - How to set up the wedding night for sexual success? (17:40) - What to do when one of the couple has previous sexual experience and the other doesn’t? How much to disclose to your spouse about your sexual past? (20:40) - If my marriage is in a good place, what purpose does it serve to see a counselor? (24:55) - How to rebuild connection when I feel like it’s gone? (28:40) - How to manage emotions and stay present during conflict/tough conversations? (31:15) - How to be a supportive wife when I feel like his work and projects take up all his time? (35:55) - How to get over resentment towards my spouse from unmet expectations? (38:35) - What to do when you feel like you can’t bounce back after an argument? Or when neither person will back down and it’s a stalemate? (40:45) - How to maintain the marriage when your spouse is battling depression? (45:00) - How to feel loved when my spouse won’t love me by my love language? (47:35) - What is the biggest difference you see between couples that are doing great vs those that are struggling? (51:15) - How to handle when one spouse wants something but the other doesn’t? (54:00) - How to manage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other? Or when it seems like one spouse is apathetic towards sex? (58:55) - How can women turn their mind off and just enjoy sex? (1:02:25) - How to talk about past sexual trauma with my spouse? (1:06:25) Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today’s episode: Dr. Josh Kruse: Website Instagram Podcast
You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview with Unrelenting Pursuit!! In this episode, Alana and Tiera sit down with Brad and Lisa Valencia and explore the intricacies of affairs and their impact on relationships. Brad and Lisa share their story and then they discuss what constitutes an affair and the difference between emotional and physical affairs. The concept of "affair-proofing" a marriage is debated, along with thoughts on friendships with the opposite sex and whether porn addiction can be considered an affair. Signs of infidelity are explored, along with insights on self-blame and handling judgment from others. Also, in the episode they provide guidance on confessing, deciding whether to stay or divorce, and how to start rebuilding trust. You're not going to want to miss this one. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Unrelenting Pursuit
Shout out to our lovely patrons who decided on this week's podcast episode topic! Want to know more about Patreon? Check it out here! In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the awkward scenario of kids walking in at the wrong moment and how much PDA is acceptable around your kids! With practical advice like scheduling date nights, flirty texts, shared hobbies, and creative use of spaces, you'll find plenty of inspiration to keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of parenting. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Birds & Bee's (use the code KINGDOM for 20% off the course!)
Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries with families, while maintaining empathy and understanding. Additionally, the Team provide insights into managing finances as a married couple, including tithing, joint bank accounts, bill payments, regular financial check-ins, and aligning spending priorities. Overall, this episode aims to equip newlyweds with practical tools to navigate the complexities of family dynamics and financial management in their marriage journey. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book Love Your First Year (use code KINGDOM15 for a discount!) Faithful Counseling
Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and engagement, have conversations about "sexpectations" before AND after the wedding, get good premarital counseling, and be explicit with each other about your needs and wants. These tips can help make your engagement easier and more enjoyable. And remember, the wedding is just the beginning of your journey together!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Run Down Faithful Counseling
In this episode, the KS Team has some very special guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating!! They discuss the challenges and joys of singleness and dating in today's world, particularly from a Christian perspective. Kait and JJ share their own experiences and insights on a variety of topics, including: What does the dating world look like today, and what are the biggest challenges facing Christian singles? Navigating talking about sexual history when dating someone who's had previous relationships. How to handle your sex drive while single. Ways that married couples can support their single friends when life is busy. You can find Kait and JJ's stuff on their website: www.heartofdating.com or on Instagram! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Listened to our other orgasm series episodes but still had questions? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go through questions that you guys, those who did the Orgasm Survey, asked! They answer questions like: How do I tell my husband when I didn't have an orgasm? What's the best way to learn to orgasm the same time as my wife? Why do some orgasms feel better than others? Can some only orgasm with a vibrator? If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Faithful Counseling She Comes First Cunnilingus Episode The Penis Book
Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! If you're looking for a sure fire way to have multiple orgasms every time you're intimate with your spouse... the KS Team is sorry to disappoint. In this episode, Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about the mythical creature of multiple orgasms and whether it's really possible to achieve. They reveal the results of a survey they conducted and they also talk about the role of cervical position and cycle in women's ability to have multiple orgasms, and the different types of multiple orgasms in men. The KS Team also give some tips for trying to achieve multiple orgasms, such as trying different types of stimulation and not pushing yourself too hard. So, if you're curious about the elusive multiple orgasm, give this podcast episode a listen! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today’s episode: TempDrop use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Penis Book Married Dance use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Kyle’s articles: -https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/ -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.09.010 -https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2020.1743224 -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sxmr.2015.12.004 -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.06.017
Have you listened to part one of the Orgasm Series yet?? If not, the team highly recommends you check it out before listening to this one! In this episode Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about many of things they skipped over in the first episode. Things like, practically, what are the first steps when it comes to having an orgasm? Does using toys have an impact on my ability to orgasm with my spouse? And they also go through what YOU, those who did the orgasm survey, found helpful when it came to finally achieving an orgasm! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Married Dance (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!) Thoughts During Sex episode Anatomy episode Come As You Are Awaken Love Kyle's Sextimony Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for 30 days free!) *again, Alana's audio isn't the best! sorry about that!!*
*unfortunately Alana's audio isn't great in this episode, we're sorry about that!!* It's the series that SO many of you have been waiting for! Alana, Kyle, & Tiera go in depth into what an orgasm is, some of the statistics from our orgasm survey, what kind of orgasms there are, and what YOU say they feel like! This is the first part of our series, so if there are things we didn't cover in this episode, just wait! It might be coming!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are Awaken Love Anatomy Episode 7 Different Orgasms for Men Birds and Bee's sex ed course (Use code KINGDOM20 for 20% off the course) Brandi Harris' sex ed course (Use code KINGS23 for at 10% discount!)
It seems like couples are either very pro shower sex, or anti-shower sex, which one are you?? Tune into this hilarious episode as Alana, Tiera, and Kyle share the pros and cons of shower sex, what lube to use, and positions that make it easier!! If you and your spouse don't actually shower together yet, that's a great place to start when it comes to this! Schedule a time to just be in the shower together! Then, as you get more comfortable, try something new! Shower sex can be a really fun way to spice things up. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: COCONU- Oil Based Lube YES! Oil Based Lube (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for a discount!) Tandem Episode 103: OPPOSITES: Sizes
Huge shout out to our incredible Patrons for this episode choice! Thank you!! The KS team has a question for you: Have you ever thought about NOT sleeping in pjs? It's an interesting thing to think about if that's what you've always done, but it's something to consider! There are pro's and con's to sleeping naked, or with less clothes on, but one thing is certain- according to research the team did- those who sleep with less clothes have more sex!! So might be worth a conversation! Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about why you should consider sleeping naked tonight!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: One Extraordinary Marriage: SLEEP NAKED Mattress Protector
The media shows us, when it comes to cleaning up after sex, that you can just kiss your partner and roll over for snuggles and snoozing. But alas. If you've been married for any length of time you'll know that there's a bit more to it than that. Or, if you're engaged and no one has ever told you what it looks like to "clean up" after being intimate- this episode is for you. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle really casually and practically go through what it looks like to properly clean up after intercourse. They also share how YOU, their followers on Instagram, clean up after sex! Excited for you to take a listen! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: DudeWipes Drip Stick
Time to talk expectations... but around sex. Did you go into your marriage with set expectations when it came to sex? How did you find navigating it? Do you and your spouse talk about expectations now? Expectations not shared are usually expectations unmet. So how can we navigate having these conversations well? Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about healthy "sex-pectations". If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Faithful Counseling
It's time to get to know the newest member of the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tiera!! In this episode she shares her journey, specifically in the area of intimacy, and how she's grown in those areas. She is going to bring such a wealth of knowledge to the team, specifically in the areas of trying to conceive, fertility, and women's sexual health. Alana and Kyle are absolutely thrilled to have her along during this wild ride. The Lord brought her along at such an amazing time and there's no doubt she's the perfect fit for Kingdom Sexuality. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Pelvic Floor PT Answers All!
The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!! Do you ever struggle with your thoughts during sex? Thinking about a past relationship experience, something you saw in porn, or even just your mind is wandering thinking about what's for dinner tomorrow?? This episode is for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what we do when/if we struggle with wrong thoughts during sex or if our mind wanders during intimacy. They also share some tips and things you can do to get your mind back in the zone during sex! The team gets really practical here, sharing simple tips like: make eye contact, be aware of your senses, and how "mindfulness" could also be a big help! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are
This is an episode you won't want to miss! Alana sits down with Brandi K. Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT. Brandi is a professional counsellor, author, speaker, teacher, and coach and her and Alana dive into all sorts of really good topics. They chat sexual education, when to have "those talks" with your kids, the science behind sexual desire, how to reignite the spark in your marriage, and so much more!! Brandi does a beautiful job of explaining arousal and desire and how these are actually two different things. You can find more of Brandi on Instagram @brandikharris, or check out her website! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Journal of Adolesence Come as You Are Episode 5: Let's Spice It Up! Jay Stringer: Unwanted
Along with being a great episode on the when's and if's of family planning- it's also an exciting episode where Alana and Kyle get to introduce Kingdom Sexuality's NEWEST MEMBER!! Tiera is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to the topic of fertility and women's health and KS is absolutely thrilled to have her apart of the team! Her sextimony will be coming in a few weeks, so this episode doesn't go too in depth into who Tiera is- instead it's an episode where the team chats about "how do you know when you're ready to have kids?" and "how do you know when to be done growing your family?". Questions that KS gets often from followers. And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Kyle and I are SO excited to have Tiera join us on the team. God has brought her to us at the perfect time and we feel so confident that she's the exact person we needed to come alongside us on this beautiful journey. We can't wait for you guys to get to know her better! -Alana
In case you were unaware... Valentine's Day is fast approaching! So with that in mind, Alana and Kyle thought it would be a fun idea to share some date night ideas! There's something for those of you who want to stay in, those who want to go out, and those of you who want something spicy. But they don't just end it there, they also touch on something that might be prevalent in your life around this time in February... what if your spouse just isn't into Valentine's Day? How do you navigate that? Where does there need to be compromise and heart inspection? Tune in! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)
The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!! The KS Team put a questions box up on Instagram asking women who follow us "what do you wish men knew about sex?" and this episode is all of those responses!! (Ladies, share this with your man!) From vocalizing things in the bedroom, go slow and soft, to "when we say keep going- KEEP GOING- don't change speed!" This episode has it all! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Episode 98: Emotional Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage Prayers for Your Wife ebook Prayers for Your Husband ebook
Kyle and Alana put a lot of work into this Oral Sex Series finale so that it wouldn't blow... (pun intended). But in all seriousness, these oral sex episodes have had so much thought, research, and data behind them. So in this weeks finale oral sex episode they talk about fellatio (aka: oral sex being done on a man, a blow job, or BJ). Alana and Kyle discuss some of the statistics from the survey's they put out over the past few weeks, why many women have a difficult time giving oral sex on their husband, some tips to help, how to go about bringing up the subject of oral sex with your spouse, and so much more! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links we mentioned in today's episode: Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!) Oral Blessings article Hot, Holy, & Humorous article
Well, we said this episode is coming and here it is! You wanted to hear more information about cunnilingus? Listen in! It's a longer episode but Alana and Kyle tackle SO much really valuable information. Things like: how do you even begin to start talking about oral sex with your spouse? and why do some women struggle when it comes to receiving oral sex? Kyle and Alana also ran a big survey before doing this series and gathered a bunch of data. You’ll hear it woven in throughout this episode and NEXT week’s episode as well. They got almost 4,500 responses, so the data is from a decent-sized sample and data set! Also, if you haven't listen to episode 112: Deep Dive Into Anatomy it's recommended to go listen to that one first, as there's quite a bit of anatomy talk in this episode and the one to come. And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! Links from today's episode: She Comes First - US Link - Canadian Link Opposites: Wants
The highly anticipated, long awaited oral sex episode is here! Alana and Kyle will be doing more in depth episodes on fellatio and cunnilingus in the coming episodes but Seth and Melanie Studley did a FANTASTIC job starting off this series. You're not going to want to miss this one. They chat about questions like: How would a couple, who’s struggled with the idea of oral sex, introduce it into their marriage? What should the conversations look like? What considerations should be given to hygiene prior to oral? How does a woman work on getting her mind in the zone for oral sex? We're excited for you to tune in! Connect with Seth and Melanie Studley: Instagram- @anatomyofmarriage Website- www.anatomyofus.com And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! Links from today's episode David Schnarch: Passionate Marriage
Buckle up for this in depth chat on both male and female anatomy!! Kyle uses his medical knowledge of the body to discuss everything anatomy! And when we say everything, we mean everything!! Some of this information might not seem relevant, but it is actually so helpful when it comes to bringing more pleasuring to a woman! Like, did you know the "g-spot" is actually just a clitoral cluster?? And did you know that the vagina gets longer when a woman becomes more aroused?? Husbands, you're going to want to listen to this one so you are able to bring your understand your wife's body to the next level! We also chat about what women want men to know about their anatomy and what men wish women knew about their bodies! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! Links from today's episode: She Comes First: -US LINK -CANADIAN LINK Come As You Are: -US LINK -CANADIAN LINK
So many of these "this is the newly discovered 6 love language!" have been coming out, are they valid? Is there a love language that's missing? Tune in as Alana and Kyle chat about the supposed 6th love language: feeling seen/known. Is feeling seen or feeling known its own love language? Is it a combination of a few? Do you feel seen when your spouse speaks your love language? We'd love to know your thoughts! Shoot us a DM or an email sharing your thoughts!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! Link's from today's episode: 5 Love Language Book Love Language Quiz Prayers For Your Husband eBook Prayers For Your Wife eBook
Ho Ho HOLD UP, you can still be intimate when you're around family this Christmas?? Yep! Listen in as Kyle and Alana chat about some ways you can make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! They discuss some other times of day you can have sex when you're around family, different locations, and how removing as much stress as possible will help increase both your libido and energy!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team. Praying this Christmas is filled with so much love, joy, and Jesus. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are (US link) Come As You Are (Canadian link)
Prepare to have a very jolly Christmas, because Alana and Kyle are giving you Kingdom Sexuality's very first SEX CHALLENGE!! Not sure what a sex challenge is? Basically, it's committing to being intimate for a set number of days in a row. In this episode they go through a bunch of FAQ's when it comes to sex challenges. Questions like: Does it HAVE to be sex every day? How do I bring up the idea of a sex challenge to my spouse? What happens if I'm not in the mood one of the days? And so much more!! If you join the 12 Days of Christmas sex challenge we would LOVE to hear how it went for you! So be sure to join our Facebook group: Kingdom Sexuality Community and share how it's impacted your marriage! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality, that's where you'll find even more of our content! Weekly sex positions, content specific to men, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! And be sure to leave us a review and you might just hear it in the next episode. Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App
We all know that this time of the year can be a busy time. Typically well meaningly so, but things can get real busy real quick. So how can we be proactive about this and protect our connection when the craziness of the holidays come around? What are some practical ways to make space for connection during busy times? Alana and Kyle chat through those questions and so much more! They mentioned this quote in the episode: "If you let it, the busyness of life will kill your marriage." So it’s up to you and your spouse to start now. Decide together that this Christmas will be a Christmas of connection instead of one filled with hurry and busyness. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode! Links from today's episode: Prayers For Your Wife eBook Prayers For Your Husband eBook The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry Book
We all know the beautiful season of giving is nearing, so Kyle and Alana start off the episode by diving into some fun sexy stocking stuffers! But on top of that, they also go more into: what can you be giving your spouse that's worth even MORE than a physical gift? Things like the gift of being present, the gift of exploration, and the gift of selflessness. Putting off our selfish nature OUTSIDE of the bedroom and seeing how it transforms things INSIDE the bedroom. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode! Links from today's episode: US Amazon Store Canadian Amazon Store Mentionables (use the code KINGDOM for 10% off!) COCONU (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!) Married Dance
Today on the KS podcast Alana and Kyle have a couple of very special guests with us to help us close out our opposites series. Abe and Elaine Romero join in today to chat about what it looks like for them to have a commuter marriage! Living in different states how can they stay connected emotionally? Sexually?? What advice do they have for other long distance marriages? How can couples be cultivating connection when they're in different locations? They chat through this, and more! You won't want to miss it. Check out Abe and Elaine's IG pages: @commutermarriagesupport and @marriage.isajoke! Make sure you follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see all of our content! We share weekly sex positions, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more! Links from todays episode: -Ultimate Intimacy -Intimately Us
Whether it’s differences in where you want to live, what you want to do in the bedroom, or if you even WANT each other in the bedroom (meaning more drive related). I feel like at some point in time we’ve all had these sorts of opposites come up in our marriages. So how do you navigate this? When you and your spouse want different things? Alana and Kyle dive into this and so much more in this episode, so listen up! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, content specific to men, couples challenges, connect questions, discounts, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Article by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Do you have a time of day preference when it comes to sex? Does your spouse? And are they the same? Alana and Kyle tackle the age old debate of morning sex vs. evening sex! (Don't worry, they don't forget about afternoon delights!) But more seriously, how do you navigate this if you're not a night owl but your spouse would rather stay up super late- when do you incorporate your intimacy? Tune in, and maybe if you've never thought about what time of day you prefer you and your spouse can have that conversation! If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see more of our content: weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Plus we even have a day dedicated to the men! Have a topic suggestion for us? Shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com.
Are you and your spouse different sizes height-wise or weight-wise? Then this is the episode for you! Kyle and Alana chat about how to navigate this and what positions are ideal for you guys! If you and your spouse are different sizes, please know that you can still have a beautiful, sexy, and flourishing sex life! It may take a bit more patience as you attempt different positions, but it will be so worth it! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly "hump day" positions, content specific to men, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Or something you'd add to today's episode? Feel free to send us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!
Odds are good that you and your spouse feel loved in different ways. In this episode, Alana and Kyle chat about the 5 love languages and how to navigate it when you and your spouse's love languages aren't the same. Like, what do you do when your spouse's love language is gifts but you have zero interest in buying gifts? Or if your love language is acts of service but you're left frustrated waiting for your spouse to take out the garbage? Or your spouse loves to touch you, but the thought of PDA makes you uncomfortable? Alana and Kyle are going to chat all about that today. If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, "hump day" sex positions, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Links from today's episode: Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages Book 46: Communicating During Sex
You've heard the term opposites attract, right? Is this true in your marriage? Are you and your spouse wildly different when it comes to your personalities? Is one of you introverted and the other extroverted? Tune in to the second episode in our Opposites series as Kyle and Alana answer questions like: "How do we navigate being different than our spouse well?" and "What does it look like being introverted vs extroverted when it comes to the bedroom??" Like any team, you can use your unique skills and abilities to work together to have a meaningful and happy life. Rather than focusing on ways we wish our partner was more like us, we can learn to understand, appreciate, and work with our personality differences. “The goal of marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.” -R. Dodd If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see weekly couples challenges, Wednesday "hump day" positions, connection questions, content specific to men on Thursday's, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Ultimate Intimacy App
Wow, we've made it to an exciting milestone: Episode 100! In this bonus episode, Kyle interviews Alana about what these first 100 episodes have been like, how they've grown her, and how this whole podcast even began! Oh, and make sure you listen to the end to hear about the exciting 100th episode giveaway that's they'll be releasing on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! Thank you so much for listening to our episodes and following along with us over the years. We appreciate the likes, shares, reviews, and messages so much- you guys are seriously such a blessing to the entire KS team. We can't wait to see where the next 100 episodes take us, and we're excited to see what God has in store for this little ministry!!
It's a long one, but it's a good one. Ruth Joseph joins Kyle and Alana and shares her story of being in an unequally yolked marriage, how it impacts her life, and so much more. Ruth answers big questions like "does being in an unequally yolked marriage have an effect on your sex life?" and "what would your advice be to someone who's considering getting into an unequally yolked relationship?" Ruth’s handle is @iamruthjoseph, check out more of her content!! As always you can find more of our stuff on Instagram @kingdomsexuality!
Today Kyle and Alana have the pleasure of chatting with Tony and Alisa Dilorenzo, hosts of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and authors of an amazing marriage book called 6 Pillars of Intimacy! They discuss emotional intimacy in depth; how emotional intimacy is connected to sexual intimacy, and what to do if only one of the couple in the marriage is putting in the word to cultivate it. They touch on scheduling sex, doing sex challenges, and how sexual intimacy can be a barometer for the rest of your marriage! You're not going to want to miss this one. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly couples challenges, have Wednesday "Hump Day's", and even a day of the week devoted to the men! You can check out Tony and Alisa's content here!
Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! Here's part two of our episode with Samantha Enns, Kyle's lovely wife! Alana asked her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "Did you struggle with comparison, knowing what he'd seen?" and "Did his addiction impact your sex life? How?". Again, we are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. We're praying that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes use the code: KS30 for 30 days free!
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! If you haven't listened to Kyle's Sextimony episode we would highly recommend you do that before listening to this one! In this episode Alana interviews Kyle's wife, Samantha, asking her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "How do I check in without accusing him/prying too much?" and "How can you trust him after his struggles with porn?". We are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. Emotions are raw and it’s extremely difficult. But there is so much hope for you! We trust that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you. This will be a two part series with the next segment coming out next week, so stay tuned for more! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes use the code: KS30 for 30 days free!
Sex is everywhere we turn. Whether it's in a show we're watching, the latest Netflix release, on our feed as we're scrolling Instagram, on a billboard by the highway, or in the book we're reading. So many forms of media give us access to things that can often leave us wondering... does this count as porn? You're not going to want to miss this episode where Paris and Alana chat about: how do we know when the media we are watching goes too far? We might think "Everyone does it. It's not a big deal, it's not like I'm addicted to watching porn or something like that..." BUT, could what you're watching be breaking Holy Spirit's heart? Listen in to hear some ways you can protect yourself from this! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly connect questions, "Hump Day" Wednesday's, share content directed to men on Thursdays, couples challenges, and lots more!! Links from the episode: Plugged In IMDB VidAngel
Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! Let's get to know the latest KS team member, shall we? In this episode, Alana chats with Kyle and he shares his journey of overcoming a pornography addiction. Kyle goes into detail explaining his struggles, when he realized he needed to seek professional help, and gives really practical tips to overcome a pornography addiction. Have any porn related questions you'd like answered? Feel free to direct your messages to Kyle on the Kingdom Sexuality Instagram account @kingdomsexuality or shoot him a DM on his personal account @kyleenns. And if you're not following the KS team already, go check out the Instagram account! That's where they'll share latest episodes, Wednesday "Hump Day" positions, connect questions, Thursday's "for the men", and so much more! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!) 30 Prayers For Your Husband Ebook 30 Prayers For Your Wife Ebook
Tune into this episode where Kyle interviews Dr. Cameron Staley to talk about his new porn recovery programs: The Life After Pornography online program and the Life After Pornography Coach app! Dr. Staley has a background in porn research and ACT therapy for overcoming porn addiction. If pornography is a struggle for you, or someone you know this is definitely an episode for you to listen to and share!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! From weekly connect questions, "Hump Day" Wednesdays, to Thursday's for the men- there will be something for you! Covenant Eyes is also an incredible program that helps by restricting access to pornographic websites on your devices, helping you to end your pornography addiction! Use to code "KS30" when you sign up to get your first 30 days free!!
Due to an internet issue this once full-length episode has been cut in half and turned into a "teaser episode" of a more in depth one to come! Listen in as Alana, Paris, and Kyle chat about masturbation and sex toys and their roll in the marriage bed. Have some questions for the team around this topic? Shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com and we'll do our best to address it in our later episode! Thank you for your grace and patience! Links from today's episode: Faithful Counselling Evelyn James: betrayal coach
Don't miss this in depth episode that covers SO many good topics! Alana and Kyle tackle the questions you sent us on Instagram- we had put up stories asking what women would want to ask a man, or what questions men would want to ask us. And they were really great questions, so we're going to break it up into a bunch of parts and tackle them over time! So if your question didn't get answered this time, make sure you listen to our upcoming episodes and we'll likely answer in the future! Kyle and Alana discuss a lot about cultivating emotional intimacy, communication, orgasms, pornography effects on your spouse, and so much more!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll find weekly connection questions, Wednesday "hump day" sex positions, "Men's Day" Thursday's, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Purity Culture Episode 1 Purity Culture Episode 2 The Womanhood Diaries: Orgasms Let's Chat Orgasms- the how, techniques, + more.
You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode on navigating sexual rejection! It's time to have a real moment with yourself next time your partner initiates intimacy and you decline the offer... take a moment to ask yourself: WHY though? If I'm too tired to do this or am I just wanting to do something else? Is this really a 'not tonight's moment' or can it simply be a 'not right now, let me decompress from a hard day' moment?Are you up for other things? A naked body massage, cuddling and kissing, etc. We're NOT saying you have to say "yes" every time if you're not actually in the mood. But sometimes it's VERY easy to 'just say no'. We have to remember that this isn't something that if you tell them no they can go ask one of their buddies if they want to go and do this with them. This is something only you can give. It's a gift that only you can give them they cannot find satisfaction in anything else without breaking God's covenantal design for marriage. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! And check out our website to see our KS merch and incredible ebooks! Links from today's episode: Emotional Intimacy Episode
We have a HUGE announcement at the end of this episode so make sure you listen to the end to find out what's new in the KS world! Did you know 1/3 of our followers are guys?! We noticed that we've been getting more and more messages from the men asking questions, or women asking things on behalf of their husbands. So we had Kyle come on so we could pick a man's brain on some of the questions we've been working through! Things like: is it valuable for men to be listening to our episodes? and how can men be having more of these intimate conversations with their wives? So guys, we hear you, and we’re here for you! Shoot us your messages on Instagram @kingdomsexuality, and we'll get back to you! Be sure to follow so you can see weekly couples challenges, Wednesday "hump day" sex positions, our "men's day" Thursday's- and so much more!!
Time to tune into another Q&A episode!! Alana and Paris discuss some of your most asked questions like: how to stay connected (non-sexually) with your spouse when you have little ones, how to bring up the topic of intimacy with your spouse without it being awkward, what to do if you're struggling with arousal, and so much more! If you're a fan of Q&A's feel free to send us more questions on our Instagram account! Go follow us @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see weekly couples challenges, Wednesday "hump day" positions, connection questions, and so much more! Links mentioned in today's episode: Great Sex Rescue- Sheila Wray Gregoire Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Run Down Taking Charge of Your Fertility
EVERY one of us has differing sexual desires and libido, it’s unique to us, just like our finger print. Yet so many couples struggle and feel isolated when they have varying sex drives from one another. One spouse is typically labeled as "high drive" and the other is "low drive". But should we even be using the term high and low drive? Could it turn into a label that can potentially carry identity? Listen in as Paris and Alana dive deep into varying sexual desire, debunk myths, and shed light on topics usually kept in the darkness. Follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality to see so much more! We share weekly couples challenges, connect questions, a Wednesday "Hump Day" sex position, and much more! Check out our website for more resources and our shop: www.kingdomsexualityministry.com Links from today's episode: 30 Prayers For Your Wife Ebook Cultivating A Missional Marriage Episode
Listen in to another episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast as Alana and Rusti ask each other the question: is sexy just a state of mind? It's time to ask ourselves some questions too! Like, what does it even mean to be sexy? Or to FEEL sexy? Does it have to do with appearance or is there more to it than that? What's something my spouse does that I find sexy- and do they know it?? Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to join the community! We share connect questions, couples challenges, "hump day" Wednesdays, and so much more! Don't forget to check out our website as well we're you'll find out more about us and you can see resources that we love and trust! www.kingdomsexualityministry.com
Are you in those first fresh years of marriage? When everything is shiny and bright with the future wide ahead of you? Such a precious and exciting time in life! But it can also be a season filled with unmet expectations, struggle, and unanswered questions. Like many, maybe you're sitting there wondering: "Why don't I want sex as much as I thought I would?" or "How can I go about telling my spouse if I'm not feeling completely satisfied where things are at right now?". Pop in your headphones and listen in as Paris and Rusti chat though those questions and so much more! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see when that new resource is live!! You'll also see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, Wednesday "Hump Day" positions, and more!
Gearing up to your wedding night and not sure what to expect? Do you have some big questions but don't know who to get to answer them? Tune into this fun episode where Alana and Rusti share the nitty gritty's about the wedding night! They discuss pain, condoms, lube, and so much more! If you're engaged and getting married soon you're not going to want to miss this one! We also have an amazing in-depth resource coming for you soon, so keep your eye's out for that!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see our latest posts, reels, and giveaways! Links from today's episode: COCONU (use our code: kingdomsexuality for a discount!) GLYDE CONDOMS Love Your First Year: Premarital Course
Are you in a season of waiting? Maybe it's waiting for a boyfriend. Or perhaps you're waiting for your wedding day! Listen in as Alana and Paris chat about these seasons, share their hearts on the periods of waiting, and where to focus your heart in these times. They also discuss boundaries- what does it look like to have boundaries before you're married? What lines are okay to cross? How far is too far?? You're not going to want to miss it! Be sure you're following them on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to be where the action is happening! You'll see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, "Hump Day" Wednesdays, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for them? Feel free to send a DM on Instagram or send an email to: kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Links from today's episode: Singleness: Interview with Jody Nagyl Singleness, Sexuality, & Confronting The Past with Jody Nagyl Premarital Preparation... God's Way The Ultimate Premarital Chat Authentic Intimacy Singleness Blog Post
YOU asked and THEY answered! Tune into this amazing episode with the whole KS team; Alana, Paris, and Rusti, answer questions that were submitted over on Instagram. They answer questions like "how can I get my mind into love making?", "what does intimacy look like once you've got little ones?", "how do you navigate differing sex drives?", and so much more! The team gets real, sharing their hearts on some big questions! Anything else you'd like to ask the team? Feel free to send them an email kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. Be sure to follow Kingdom Sexuality on IG to see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, Wednesday "hump day" sex positions, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Praying For Your Wife Ebook Mentionables (use code KINGDOM10 for a sweet discount!)
Last week the Kingdom Sexuality Team went over a bunch of things that sex is! So this week, Alana and Rusti chat about some of the things that sex is NOT. Things like: sex is not a form of currency, it's not something you have do so you're spouse doesn't have their needs met somewhere else, and it's not always clean and comfortable! Sex is a bunch of things, but there are a lot of things that sex is not. So listen in as we get super honest and open about some lies floating around about intimacy! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more! We post weekly "hump day" sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!
The world around us displays sex in a very specific way. It's glamorized to look like this erotic, romantic, perfect, multiple-orgasm experience every. single. time... And so many of us say "I Do" and expect that to be what goes down in the bedroom but we're hit with the realization that sex, like everything else in life, is a learned skill that you'll get better at over time! So put in those headphones and listen in as Alana, Paris, and Rusti get back to the basics and go over the fundamentals of what sex really is. Sex is a gift from God, a learned skill, a covenant reflection of Christ's love for us, a means of fighting spiritual battles, and SO much more! Be sure to follow along with us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more! You'll find weekly challenges, sex position ideas, connect questions, sweet discounts, and so much more! Links from today's episode: KAC Podcast: Sex and Marriage- Paris Simpson & Alana Martens Ultimate Intimacy App
The long anticipated, much requested, birth control episode is finally here! After numerous attempts at recording this, Rusti swooped in and did a beautiful job breaking down natural family planning, how you can go about tracking your cycle, gauging when your ovulation is happening- all to help prevent pregnancy or assist you if you're trying to conceive! If you have any questions about today's episode feel free to shoot us a message on Instagram! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see all of our weekly challenges, "hump day" sex positions, connect questions, and so much more! Have a topic request for us? Feel free to DM us on Instagram or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Links mentioned in the episode: Taking Charge of Your Fertility Paris' personal Instagram account: @sheswildandwell
Tune into this amazing episode that was requested by YOU! Alana and Rusti chat about some "do's and don't's" when it comes to conversations with your friends about your intimate life! What's okay to share? How do I even bring this topic up with friends? What if everyone judges me for asking this question? They cover all those questions and more! Be sure to listen till the end to hear the "practical application" side as Rusti and Alana share some things that you could bring up in conversation with trusted friends. Are you following us on Instagram? Check out our page @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, connect questions, discounts on amazing products, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion? Shoot us a DM on Instagram or an email to kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!
Listen in as Alana and Rusti share their hearts and chat about spiritual gifts, what it looks like using them in your marriage, and how to begin walking in a missional marriage. They also share some advice for those in the relationship who are the ones running hard after Jesus and how to navigate life if your spouse isn't on the same page as you yet. If you’re not following us on Instagram be sure you check us out @kingdomsexuality! You’ll see weekly challenges, “hump day” sex positions, exciting discounts, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for the KS Team? Shoot us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!
THE BIG QUESTION: Is your marriage reflecting Jesus’ love to those around you? If you’re unsure of how to answer that question, I think it’s time to do some heart work. Think about it! You and your spouse were put together for a purpose. You each individually have a specific calling and gifts that were given to you and passions that get you fired up. So then, when you put those gifts, callings, and passions and combine them with your spouses- you become a powerhouse for Jesus! So tune in as Alana and Rusti chat through what it looks like to have a marriage on mission! (Part two of this conversation will be coming next week!) Join the community of likeminded believers on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Can't wait to see you over there.
Ready to have a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist answer YOUR questions?? Callie Teel, PT, DPT is a dedicated follower of Christ and a long time Kingdom Sexuality fan. She has a passion for helping women overcome dysfunction and embrace the sexual beings God created them to be. She graduated from Texas Tech university Health Science Center with her doctorate in physical therapy and then trained to become a pelvic health specialist. She now works in Amarillo Texas, helping women with all kinds of things like; pain with intimacy, difficulty climaxing, pre and postpartum care, incontinence, constipation and so much more. She did a beautiful job answering your questions and sharing her wealth of knowledge with us- this is an episode you're not going to want to miss!! Callie and a coworker created their own podcast “Pelvic Service Announcement” to educate and empower others about their pelvic health! Be sure to check it out! And if you're not, be sure to follow us on Instagram as well @kingdomsexuality where you'll see all of our latest updates, weekly sex positions, connect questions, discounts on great products, and so much more!!
YOU ASKED and WE ANSWERED! Here are some of the questions we've received on our Instagram account about the three of us! So we; Alana, Paris, and Rusti, share more about who we are! We chat about what we do on the daily, if we were virgins when we got married, what our love languages are, favourite part about doing this ministry, and more! Put in your headphones and get to know us better!! Feel free to share some of your own answers with us over on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! Over there you'll see us share weekly sex positions, connect questions, and so much more! Have any more personal questions for us? Shoot them our way either in our DM's or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!
Does your sexuality need a life preserver? Has purity culture, church culture, LACK of of information, or trauma creeped its way into your sex life and you feel like you're about to drown? In this interview Paris and Rusti interview Sheila Gregoire, author of "The Great Sex Rescue" ( and many others, check out her new revised version of 'The Good Girls Guide To Great Sex' ) and chat with her about her study of over 20,000 women with the goal of getting to the heart of our struggle with sexuality. You guys are NOT going to want to miss this one! If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality where you'll find weekly couples challenges, connect questions, sex position ideas, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or an email: kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!
We’ve done an episode on “spicing it up” in the bedroom before, but now that we’ve got Rusti here and since it’s been a long time since that episode came out (fun fact, that was our 4th episode to be released) it seemed like a good time to make a “spice it up 2.0”! If you’ve been married for any length of time you’ll know that sex can easily become routine. We’re busy people! The list of things to do is never ceasing and ever growing- we need to pick kids up from school, take out the trash, get food on the table, spring clean, and see friends… so when there is a spare moment to be intimate it can easily turn into a 10 step list of things you do every time. And a routine can be great, but maybe you’re ready to try something different or long to add some fireworks and butterflies again! So we’ve compiled a little list of some ways that you can go about spicing things up! If you're not, be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see weekly couples challenges, "Hump Day" sex positions, connect questions and so much more! Link to our ebook: HERE
Recently on our Instagram Rusti shared a handful of hindrances very briefly that could impede us from that body shuttering, skin tingling, hair raising prize. Today we're going to go a little bit more in depth, give some more background information that will hopefully help gain more wisdom when it comes to understanding why we might be struggling to reach orgasm. We absolutely want to preface this with the fact that we will be discussing sexual trauma a bit and so this is a trigger warning in case you are still going through your healing. We want to be sensitive to those listening who are working through trauma, so the KS Team wanted to make sure you had ample warning! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to join the community! You'll see couples challenges, weekly sex positions, connect questions, and so much more!
Tune into this fun interview with author, Karin Freeland! Karin has published a book called "The In's and Outs of My Vagina: A Penetrating Memoir", and she shares how she came to write this book, some of the hilarious and relatable stories in it, and so much more! You can find Karin on Instagram @karinfreeland, and her book is on Amazon and BarnesandNoble.com! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community of like-minded believers who are also journeying through this with you! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connection questions, and more!
It’s about time the KS team did an episode solely on this topic! We’re not sure why it seems to happen this way, but there is this switch that so many of us come across as newlyweds. We go into marriage assuming that this magical switch is going to flip and that they can go from thinking that sex is bad/dirty/something we shouldn't want… to thinking that it’s incredible and love every minute of it. That’s a big switch to flip!! So tune in as Alana and Rusti tackle this big topic! Links from today’s episode: @loveyourfirstyear Find our ebook on our website: www.kingdomsexualityministry.com! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You’ll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!
What does your dream date look like? What does your spouses dream date look like? Are they similar or super different? Tune in as Alana, Paris, and Rusti share what their dream dates were and what their husbands were! Have the chat with your spouse, then after doing the date try out some new sexual technique! The KS team goes through 4 different techniques that can be helpful to try in the bedroom, so listen in to hear those after they share their dream dates! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see when we're uploading new episodes, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email kingdomsexuality@gmail.com, we'd love to hear what your dream dates were!!
Kyler and Britt from @loveyourfirstyear take this episode over and tackle some amazing questions that you guys sent in specifically to be answered by a man! They did an incredible job sharing their hearts and answering your questions around sex and marriage. Be sure to follow them on Instagram @loveyourfirstyear to see all of their content that's geared towards engaged couples and making your first year of marriage a fantastic one! And be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community of like-minded believers who are also journeying through this with you! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connection questions, and so more!
Happy Valentine's Day, Kingdom Sexuality listeners! They decided to switch things up and go a different route for this Valentine's Day episode! Listen in as Alana and Rusti chat about the slightly less glamorous side of intimacy. They go over an array of sticky situations that can occur, common hiccups that can throw a wrench in your sexy plans, embarrassing things that are totally normal to occur during lovemaking sessions. So buckle up, get ready to laugh and let's go! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!!
Tune into this incredible episode where Alana and Paris interview Dan Purcell from Get Your Marriage On! about all things sexual confidence. Dan shares so much incredible wisdom around navigating confidence in the bedroom and what you can do if that's something your spouse struggles with! Be sure to follow Dan @getyourmarriageon, and be sure to check out the "14 Days of Sextimacy" challenge as well, he shares more on that over on his account. Be sure to follow the KS Team on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Links from todays episode: -Great Sex Rescue: Sheila Wray Gregoire -Celeste David: Marriage Labratory -Intimately Us App
The KS team put a questions box in their stories over on Instagram asking if you guys had any questions around the upcoming holiday of Valentine's Day! So tune in as Alana, Paris, and Rusti tackle these amazing questions! They talk about ways to spice your Valentine's Day up, how you can celebrate if you're long distance, gifts ideas for him & her, and so much more! Make sure you're following them on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! Come join the community of like-minded believers who are also journeying through this with you! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connection questions, and tons more! Links from the episode: Melt Massage Mentionables Honoring Intimates
Welcome back to another episode of the Kingdom Sexuality podcast! This episode is extra special because Alana and Paris have the opportunity to chat with Rusti (our newest KS team member) and introduce her to all of you! You'll get to hear Rusti share her beautiful sextimony and encourage those of you who maybe feel easily replaceable, or like they have a void in their life. Get excited to hear from Rusti more! She has such a heart for this ministry and is going to bring a new angle to the podcast, and we can't wait to see how the Lord uses her in this ministry. Following us on Instagram? Check us out @kingdomsexuality to see weekly couples challenges, Hump Day sex positions, connect questions, reliable Godly product recommendations, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion or question for us? Shoot us an email: kingdomsexuality@gmail.com
The sexual relationship thrives when a marriage is safe, honest, and full of selfless love. But what does a thriving sex life look like in a Christian marriage? Or should we even be asking that? Maybe instead we need to dig into the word and see what the Bible says marriage and intimacy needs to look like. So get comfy and join Paris and Alana as they get back to the basic fundamentals and go through 4 important cornerstones that a thriving sex life always includes! (4 core points shared by @evelynjames) Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community of like-minded believers who are also journeying through this with you! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connection questions, and more!
You want a bomb, spicy, solid, exciting marriage for 2022? We love it. But maybe you’re in a place where you have no idea where to start. Maybe there’s some deep pain, insecurities, or just an overall feeling of being ‘lost’ within your own marriage and you're not sure how to get from point a to b. So tune in Alana and Paris dive into 5 super practical ways you can up the emotional connection in your marriage. Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send your email to kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!
BONUS EPISODE! Since Alana and Paris now put out episodes bi-weekly they realized that you were only going to get one podcast episode before Christmas, and that didn't seem okay. So here's a special bonus episode chatting about a topic that YOU requested! Alana put a questions box on Instagram asking for Christmas episode suggestions and many of you were wanting tips for how to stay intimate with your spouse during the business of the holiday season. So if you're wondering what remaining intimate looks like while traveling, staying with family, having less than ideal sleeping situations, or having family over for Christmas- this episode is for you! Links mentioned in the episode: Get Your Marriage On! app Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, "hump day" sex positions, connection questions, and so much more! Have a topic you'd like to have us chat about? Shoot us a DM on Instagram or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com.
The Christmas season is upon us! Which means that life might be getting a smidge chaotic. Maybe you're staying at your in-laws over the holidays or have piles of family coming up to visit- this episode is hopefully going to help you become more intentional about carving out time with your spouse despite what's going on around you. Links mentioned in the episode: -The Next Right Thing with Emily P. Freeman -"Not Your Mama's Holiday Traditions" Kingdom Sexuality episode Follow us on Instagram? Check it out @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, date night ideas, and so much more! Join the community and say hello! Have a topic suggestion you'd like us to tackle? Feel free to DM us!!
Every couple goes through crises in their marriage, whether it's big or small. But are we equipped to stay connected when life gets shaky? Is our first response to choose connection with our spouse when our negative emotions come bubbling up or do we disconnect from them- creating a gap between us? Listen in as Alana and Paris discuss some roots of crisis that often show up in our marriages and some reminders for you to stand on when you’re in the thick of it. This episode is packed FULL of valuable information, you’re not going to want to miss it!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community! You’ll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, date night ideas, and so much more!!
Does sex ever feel more like something you have to check off a list and less like something you look forward to? Join in as Alana and Paris as they chat about why sex might be feeling like a chore and some really practical ways for how you can work towards changing that!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!
They’re back! After taking a break for a few months Alana and Paris are back behind the mics. In this weeks episode they fill listeners in on what’s been keeping them busy, how the podcast schedule is changing, and they also answer YOUR questions asked on Instagram! Be sure to follow them on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so so much more!
Have you ever gone through a bit of “dry spell” sexually in your marriage? Maybe it’s been weeks or months since you and your spouse have been intimate. Please know that you’re not alone! Seasons of sexual slumps can be pretty discouraging, but our prayer for your marriages is that you’ll come through these seasons even stronger and more prepared for what’s ahead! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Links we mentioned in today’s episode: Marriage Journal: beating50percent.com Melt Massage: https://marrieddance.com/shop/online-courses/melt-massage-for-couples/?aff=78&campaign=MeltMassageCourse
Alana and Paris asked YOU what other questions you had around Purity Culture and they compiled them into this episode. They go through the lies and hit them hard with the truth of what God intends for your marriage. They tackle lies like "losing your virginity deems you as unworthy of a godly relationship" and "sex will be automatically amazing if you remain a virgin before you get married". Big stuff. Don't follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram yet? Come join the community @kingdomsexuality! You'll see when new episodes are released, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and much more!
In their last episode, Alana and Paris shared what the bible says in regards to women’s bodies and how purity culture twists what the bible says to put shame and confusion on so many of us. In today's episode they dive a little deeper into this and encourage us to ask ourselves what other lies we’ve come to believe, maybe without even realizing it, around sexuality. Don't follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram yet? Come join the community @kingdomsexuality! You'll see when new episodes are released, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and more!
Join Paris + Alana as they tackle + debunk the lies that the 'purity culture narrative' has spoken over our generation of women; specifically in the area of modesty, how we conduct ourselves, + in our sexuality. Let's bring this back to biblical truth shall we?! Be sure to follow @kingdomsexuality on Instagram to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and so much more!
Contrary to what culture screams at us, it's quite common for husbands and wives to have varying sex drives. Someone has a higher libido, someone's is lower and maybe it's starting to cause some friction within your marriage. This episode is for YOU! Grab your coffee and listen up as Alana and Paris share their own experiences in this, and share how having a mismatched libido is extremely common. If you’re listening to this and feel alone, please know first and foremost that you are not! Handling and navigating life as a couple with differing sex drives can be tricky, but there is so much hope for you! With a little extra empathy, creativity, and some vulnerable conversations, navigating a mismatched libido can become more of a fun project and less of a stressful problem. No matter how distant you may feel from you spouse due to varying sex drives, it’s never too late to have a loving, intimate, sexually fulfilling sex life. Follow us on Instagram yet? Check out @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, connection questions, date night ideas, and so much more! Links from todays episode: Faithful Counselling: https://faithfulcounseling.com/kingdomsexualityministry
Do we just lose ourselves in the name of motherhood? Can we still have passions + hobbies? How do you cultivate an even DEEPER marriage + intimacy through parenthood? What about everything the world screams at us, how do we see the truth through it all? Well hun, it's time for this chat, and we are so excited to share some raw and simple truths to clear the fog + questions.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Kingdom Sexuality! This little passion project turned ministry began just a short year ago. We both feel so incredibly grateful to all of our incredibly supportive listeners and followers. To those of you who have been around since this began- thank you for sticking with us! And to those of you who are new to following- welcome here! We're so overwhelmed at how receptive you all have been, and we know that this ministry would be nothing without the incredible work of the Lord. His hand has been so heavily on this ministry, it's amazing. He has shown us time and time again that when you show up with your few loaves and fishes He will supply the rest. Leah Rempel from Faith School Podcast did an incredible job coming up with questions for this episode and we hope you really enjoy listening to us chat about what this year has been like for us as brand new baby podcasters! If you're not following us on Instagram be sure to check out our page @kingdomsexuality! That's where most of the action is! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, giveaways, and so much more!!
Alana takes the reins on this casual episode and goes through some fun anniversary traditions shared by followers! Relive, retreat, and reflect on the wonderful years you’ve shared together! So for your anniversary- put expectations aside, get a babysitter for the kiddos, and just enjoy some much needed quality time with each other. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! And feel free to share your anniversary traditions with us! Shoot us a DM, we'd love to hear them!!
Mindset. Body Image. No sex drive. Pregnancy friendly sex positions. Postpartum intimacy cultivation. You asked the questions, + Paris interviews Alana as she journeys through her second pregnancy!
You're not going to want to miss this episode! Alana takes the reigns and dives into what talking in the bedroom can look like and how it can be really helpful in taking your intimate life with your spouse to the next level. They go into more that just talking ABOUT sex with your spouse but actually talk about what talking DURING sex looks like in a healthy, God-honouring way! Maybe it's something that you've never thought to incorporate into your love making, but saying beautiful words- or even your spouses name!!- can help add fuel to the bedroom fire! If you're not already, but sure to give us a follow over on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. You'll see weekly sex positions, when we upload new episodes, giveaways, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Feel free to DM us on Instagram or shoot us an email- we'd love to hear from you!
Paris & Alana go into 3 common sex positions but go into the technique, tips, + tricks to take these most common sex positions from 'good' to 'fantastic'. With variations, technique explanation, CAT, angles, & lots of communication + lube, we hope this blesses your marriage! We do mention Coconu as our fave, trusted lube brand that we adore! Check them out here for a discount code on an ethical, all natural & safe lube! https://coconu.com/?rfsn=5697652.af1ccd&utm_source=refersion&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=5697652.af1ccd
You're not going to want to miss this incredible, information-packed episode with Rosie Makinney from @fightforloveministries. Rosie dives right into how the spouse who's been hurt by their spouses pornography usage can find healing despite the grief, betrayal, and broken trust that comes with this issue. Not only does she go into some of the science behind what's going on in the spouse who's watched porn's brain- but she chats about body image and why there's absolutely no need to compare ourselves with the airbrushed women and men on the screen. This is a big subject to tackle, but Alana and Paris want you to know that you are seen. Your trauma and grief are very real. And there is hope to come through this deep season with an even stronger relationship than before! If you don't already be sure to follow us on Instagram, @kingdomsexuality, to see weekly sex positions, challenges, giveaways, and so much more! Resources mentioned in the episode: Facebook Support Group: Fight For Love Fellowship Rosie's Book: Fight For Love Julie Slattery's book: Rethinking Sexuality
Let's get this straight: Porn is not a men's only battle. In this episode, Authentic Intimacy's Joy Skarka shares her raw & redemptive story in her own battle with porn, masturbation, shame, and coping from sexual assault, turned to equipping and leading women towards freedom through Christ coming from similar back-stories. This is an episode you do NOT want to miss.
Healing from pornography involves both parties-the person who struggles with it, and those who it affects. In this episode, Paris & Alana interview Tim Busse for part 2 of this series. Tim dives deep into porn culture vs gospel culture and what each serves in terms of mentality & morals, healing from porn (both the user & those affected), dealing with the aftermath of porn & broken trust, as well as huge steps towards ultimate healing from addiction. This is an episode that covers the BIG questions.
The first episode of the long awaited pornography series is here! You're not going to want to miss this information packed episode where Alana and Paris interview Pastor Tim Busse to tackle the subject of porn. They get into a bit of Tim's story, the root of why people get drawn into watching pornography, how to find someone to keep you accountable, how secrecy is linked to shame, how to get out of the cycle, and so much more! This episode is longer than usual ones, but they didn't want to leave any of this incredible information out! Be sure to follow @kingdomsexuality on Instagram if you're not already to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, intimacy check-in questions, giveaways, and so much more! If you have any specific topic suggestions or questions feel free to email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Resources Tim mentions: -Jay Stringer -Covenant Eyes - Fight The New Drug
We put a questions box in our Instagram stories asking for some "Get To Know Us" questions and we got SO many incredible ones! A good bulk of the questions were around how the podcast came to be, why we started this, and why we want to talk about sexual intimacy! So we decided a nice way to tackle all of those questions was to give our testimonies... with a twist. Cue... our SEX-TIMONIES! If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality to see weekly sex positions, live videos, giveaways, and so much more!
In this episode, Alana & Paris speak some big, freeing, & healing truths on forgiveness. This is a precursor episode heading into our pornography series, so be sure to catch this before we go into BIG stuff. Tune into this to be encouraged & set your feet on the healing journey towards kicking shame & deep roots to the side & walking in our gift of freedom through forgiveness through the Father!
Join Alana and Paris as they end of their premarital series tackling a big question: "but what if we've already had sex before marriage??". They go through 3 main points 1. Boundaries and Repentance, 2. Guilt and Shame, and 3. God is our Father not a Punisher. Alana and Paris drive home the heart of who God is, and how EVERYONE is redeemable. Regardless of the lines you've crossed or how far you've done, or how many people you've been with- His grace IS fully sufficient for you! God will ALWAYS welcome you back with open arms looking at you as whole, pure, and deeply loved. Follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality if you're not already to see sneak peeks of what series are coming next, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and so much more!
Engaged & heading into marriage? Is your upcoming wedding night leaving your mind frazzled with questions about sexual intimacy? Grab your fave hot drink & feel like you're part of a living room chat with Paris & Alana as they interview Kyler & Britt from "Love Your First Year" ministry. From walking you through wisely preparing your future marriage together and not falling into the common rut of the wedding day being THE ultimate focus of your engagement & losing track of your relationship through it, to wedding night intimacy & the emotional & sexual vulnerability that comes with that, hang out with these 4 as they walk you through common mishaps & encourage you how to navigate this huge season of your life with your fiancé & Jesus. Also...did we say we have a beautiful, biblical, ULTIMATE premarital counselling course to offer you, too? Yes, yes we do! GET THE ULTIMATE LYFY PREMARITAL COACHING COURSE by Kyler & Britt here with code KINGDOM15 here: https://course.loveyourfirstyear.com/a/45244/v6Bo5tzF FOLLOW Kyler & Britt on IG @loveyourfirstyear & us @kingdomsexualityministry for a life-giving breath of fresh air to your marriage & sex life, engaged & dating relationship, all rooted in God's truths.
You're going to need to buckle up for this episode. Engaged, dating, married? This episode will have something for you! Kyler and Britt from "Love Your First Year" do a fantastic job at answering some of our big questions around the premarital season. Like, how far is too far? How do you make boundaries? Where's the line? And, how can couples prepare for intimacy within marriage while dating without crossing boundaries? Make sure you're following us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality so you can see our weekly sex positions, live videos, couples challenges, and so much more! Plus, you can subscribe to our email list over at our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com to get our exclusive monthly newsletter! Be sure to follow Britt and Kyler @loveyourfirstyear to see the resources they offer! They have some incredible things for you dating/engaged couples or those of you who have recently entered into marriage! Books they recommended in this episode: Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Les and Leslie Parrott Things I Wish I'd Known Before I Got Married by Gary Chapman Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
Setting boundaries? Leaving & cleaving? Our roles as future spouses? Being unequally yoked? What to read, who to surround ourselves with, & counselling? There is a LOAD of your questions in here as you prepare for marriage, & Paris & Alana walk you through this & more importantly, walk you through it with God's direction & the mindset of excitement, intention, & preparation for this next season of life!
This one is for the long distance lovers out there! Finally, after numerous requests for advice for couples doing their relationship long distance, we decided to tackle it! We put up a questions box in our stories over on our @kingdomsexuality Instagram account, asking YOU: how to do remain intimate and connected with your spouse if you're doing the long distance thing? So this episode is us sharing that list with you! Advice and tips from couples who have experience doing months of long distance. To those of you going through this season currently, we love you and just want you to feel so encouraged. Please feel free to reach out- we'd love to know how we can pray for you during this season! If you're not already, be sure to follow along over on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see giveaways, weekly sex positions, challenges, and so much more! And check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and subscribe for exclusive monthly content!
This is an unscripted, raw, and in the moment Q&A as Paris & Alana work through YOUR questions on intimacy, sex, & marriage. It gets good so if you need a laugh today, tune in. If you need position advice, tune in. If you need pre-marital advice & encouragement, tune in...just...tune in ;)
We put a questions box on our Instagram account looking for questions for today's episode and you guys SHOWED UP! Join us in this casual chat style episode where we answer as many questions as we can in 15 minutes! We chat everything from oral sex to favourite love making songs, and so much more! Enjoy episodes like this? Be sure to let us know and we'll sprinkle them in more often! Have a question for a future Q&A- DM us on Instagram of email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! If you're not already be sure to follow along with us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, challenges, giveaways, and so much more! Come on over and join the beautiful community!! XO
There's seasons of life where sex is NOT an option, so how do we navigate these seasons while still actively guarding, blessing, & pouring intention over intimacy in our marriages? Paris & Alana share everything from positions & techniques, both sensual & sexual (but not intercourse!), to mindset & scripture on the subject to encourage & empower you in seasons of abstinence.
Join Alana and Paris as they have a casual chat around a follower topic suggestion: what healthy sexual habits look like! They chat through how it's important to make sex a priority, communicating sexual desires, and how to avoid sexual ruts. Have you seen the new website?? Head over to www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and check out what's happening! Subscribe and you'll get Kingdom Sexuality's monthly newsletter! And if you haven't already- join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
We hear you, Valentines CAN be overrated, but with the way we are spinning things on it, it is UNDERrated ;) No matter your take on valentines, or if even your spouse isn't on the same page on it as you are, we have some fun tips to set your marriage up for success & the celebration of intimacy this February! Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
What does sexual confidence even look like as a godly woman? In this episode, Paris & Alana confront huge myths the enemy condemns us wth in the confidence realm, such as false confidence & idols, to hiding from our full calling to truth. Paris & Alana open this heart felt message with God's powerful truths over us a women to direct & encourage us to walk fully in sexual confidence & freedom within marriage. Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
We so often hear that this is what makes a marriage go from good to great- the level of communication they have. So how does a couple go about having awesome communication? Especially when it comes to talking about sex!? How often are you communicating with your spouse about your sex life? Often? Seldom? Never?? It's about time we normalize talking about our intimate life with our spouse. Join Alana and Paris as they chat through 5 tips to help you begin talking about sex with your spouse! They make it really practical and easy to begin having those conversations. And even though it may feel a tad awkward the first time you sit down to chat, like with anything- the more you practice and have those talks more regularly the easier it will get! Are you following us on Instagram? Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
We all have indoctrination & influence when it comes to our mindsets around sexuality. This often becomes apparent within marriage & can be a very difficult reality to navigate through as a couple. Paris & Alana tackle mindset around sexuality & embrace the beauty of "not conforming to the patterns of this world but transforming by the renewing of your mind..." & give practical steps in implementing & addressing this topic. Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
It's almost 2021 and Alana and Paris are keeping the theme on strong for intentionally incorporating sexual goals within our marriages. They talked through spicy Christmas traditions in past episodes and now with New Years coming in hot, it’s about time to sit down together as a couple, and create sexual goals within your marriage. Whether you are a new year's resolution kind of couple or not, creating intentional sexual resolutions, whether year by year, short term, long term, or all of the above, this stuff is so important! Make sure you're following Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Come join the community! And if you'd like to share a topic suggestion feel free to DM on Instagram or send an email to kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!!
Holiday Episode number 3 is here! And we’re ramping up to Christmas, which means this season is probably already so full for you!! So cue this very timely episode! The question we're answering in today's episode is: How do I "keep my love on" with my husband when busy seasons roll around? It's a great question that we decided to sum up in 5 points: 1.) Be on the same team 2.) Take time as a couple to unplug and play 3.) Steal time away- just the two of you 4.) apologize right away, and ultimately 5.) Remember the Reason for the Season! Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
Do you have sexy holiday traditions JUST for the two of you?! Like snow stripping, Christmas leftovers in bed in the buff....mhm. Paris & Alana have you covered with this animated episode full of ideas & sexy fun! Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
The "Season of Giving" is here and so is Kingdom Sexuality's first ever holiday episode. Join Alana and Paris as they discuss what giving of yourself, or being selfless, looks like in the daily life as a woman, but also what does that look like as a wife, and as a lover? How can we love our husbands and even make love to them with selflessness as the forefront of our minds? This Christmas season Paris and Alana really want to challenge you to give your spouse the gift of selflessness. That, even though it’s not always easy, you would choose to serve your spouse with a heart full of gratitude, joy, and love. And watch how, when you put yourself aside, you yourself get filled up and your spouse in turn begins to pour into you as well! Be sure to follow along with them on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see live videos, weekly sex positions, challenges, and so much more! Come join the community! And feel free to email Alana and Paris at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com, or send a DM on Instagram, with topic suggestions- they can't wait to hear from you!
In this episode, we asked Jody to come back and get deeper on the topic of navigating through singleness & sexuality as a believer. Soul ties. Mental, spiritual, & emotional bondage with past sexual encounters. Blood covenants. Preparing yourself through relationship with friends, family & God before marriage. Jody gives us huge truths and vulnerability as we dive into this realms of traumatic sexual pasts & preparing for future freedom. Follow Jody on Instagram @jodynagyl And if you're not already, go follow us on Instagram as well @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couple challenges, live videos, and so much more!
Whether you're single or married- you're going to want to listen to this incredible episode! We had an amazing time picking the brain of our beautiful guest, Jody Nagyl. We chat about how singles can steward their season of singleness wisely, how single people can navigate sexual desires honorably, and how married women can support and walk alongside our single friends in an empowering, encouraging way! Follow Jody on Instagram here: @jodynagyl - and be sure to follow along with Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram @kingdomsexuality for weekly challenges, sex positions, reels, and a beautiful community!
Did you know there's multiple orgasmic spots in a woman? God created us so incredibly, ladies! In this episode, Paris + Alana go over clitoral + g-spot orgasms, techniques on orgasm, & chat the real + raw on this hot topic. Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!
Men and women's bodies are vastly different from one another. So naturally, they each require different things to achieve an orgasm. But why doesn't anyone ever talk about this?! Alana and Paris both share how they went into marriage assuming that reaching climax would just happen to women like it does to men. Nope. But what a gift, that as husband and wife that you get to learn how to get her there together. And that's one of the biggest things Paris and Alana hope you take away from this episode: Understanding that achieving an orgasm is a skill that women have to learn. So plug in your headphones and buckle up as they tackle 5 big lies that are commonly believed about orgasms! Be sure to follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram (@kingdomsexuality) to see weekly challenges, sex positions, tips, giveaways, & so much more! It's a safe space to ask questions, be challenged, and cultivate community. Find the book Paris and Alana mention here: Sheet Music by Dr. Kevin Leman
Postpartum is a season of life that can leave women feeling one of two things: "what's the big deal?! I LOVED this season!" or, "this terrifies me beyond words." We have covered postpartum, ways to prepare yourself for it through a support network, caring for your mentality, being grounded in Jesus, hormone prep, intimacy with your man WITHOUT having sex, & amazing food & supplements to keep your body nourished & upbeat. However, sometimes this season just hits HARD, fast, & furious, and we feel alone, worthless, & live in a very, very dark place inside our heads & hearts. Not because we want to, may I add...but because sometimes it's just HARD. Today, we host an incredible guest speaker, Bethany Fontaine, as she shares to raw struggles of her personal postpartum battle. Find & follow Bethany on social media on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bethanyfontaine/?hl=en Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC86cc9AQwyEPj9fwnItDtaQ
What does intimacy during the postpartum season look like? How is it possible to keep heat in the sheets during this new stage in life? And why are so many new mamas going into the "fourth trimester" feeling unprepared? Alana and Paris chat about this and so much more in this highly requested postpartum episode! Listen till the end to hear them share 5 tips for keeping the connection and intimacy alive during this postpartum season. Have any other topic suggestions? Questions? Or want to make sure you see when new episodes, live chats, and giveaways are happening? Join the community over on Instagram! Follow us @KingdomSexuality to see weekly couples challenges, sex positions, encouragement, and so much more!
Expecting mamas- this one is for you! We all know that our bodies go through so much during the magical 9 months of growing another human! But slightly less talked about is how intimacy with our husbands can be impacted during that time. Between raging hormones, morning sickness, discomfort, and physical changes to our bodies- it can be easy to throw intimacy on the back burner. But there are so many other ways we can keep that connection going with our husbands, even if sex isn't an option! Join Alana and Paris as they share struggles they experienced during their own pregnancies, great sex positions for throughout pregnancy, and some super fun stay-in date night ideas- for those nights that you just don't feel like leaving the comforts of your own home! Be sure to follow us on Instagram (@KingdomSexuality) to see the sex positions we chatted about shown on our Wednesday "Hump Day" highlight!
Feel in the dark about understanding how ovulation & conception actually works? Do you know as women we typically only have a 24 hour window to conceive every month, providing our cycles are healthy & monthly? If that's came as a shocker, or you're wanting to educate youreslf on your cycle as a woman come hang with Paris for 18 minutes as she debunks some big misconceptions around this topic, covers a series of ovulation & natural fertility boosting tips & tricks, & walks you through the Follicular phase in a simple, easy to understand way.
Here at Kingdom Sexuality we know that we can only disciple as far as we've experienced, which is why we're SO excited to do interviews! In Canada, roughly 1 in 6 couples experiences infertility- so this is a big topic that we want to cover! So listen along as Alana interviews her good friend, sister-in-law, and co-blogger Melinda on her and her husbands infertility journey and how it impacted their intimate life and what they did to keep their connection during that time. You can follow along with Melinda's sweet little family over on Instagram at: @melindasara89 or @linensandvines.
Welcome to the Womanhood Diaries, where Paris & Alana talk openly about the real, raw & vulnerable aspects of being women. In this episode, Paris takes menstrual talk to a fun level: debunking PMS, what a healthy monthly hormonal cycle looks like, cleanliness, hormone friendly menstrual products, hormones, & the effect of environment on hormones. Paris believes knowing HOW your body was created to function hormonally, cyclically, & well starts with debunking myths, sharing truths, & getting the un-talked about stuff talked about. Get ready for empowerment, encouragement, & better intimacy in embracing this part of your cycle! For more information on holistic hormonal support, supplements, oils, & dietary info mentioned by Paris in the podcast, please follow &/or reach out to Paris on her IG handle parissimpson_andtribe
We briefly mentioned love languages in our Q&A episode but decided it was time to devote an entire episode to this!! Do you know what your love language is? How about your spouses'? Join along as Alana and Paris share theirs, chat about the importance and purpose of them, and share 3 fun ways to love your spouse and vice versa with each of the 5 love languages! Do the quiz here: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
Paris & Alana each write 3 intimate, intentional questions down to ask one another, the catch? Neither of them know the questions they're about to be asked & answer on the spot! Join them to hear about how they're prepping now for future sex talks with their children, love languages, favourite sex positions, & more! Come hang with us on IG @ https://www.instagram.com/kingdomsexuality/?hl=en
Join Paris and Alana as they dive into the big giant topic of shame. This isn't your fluffy, light & easy conversation- but dealing with shame & guilt we're feeling from the past, or maybe even the present, is imperative. It's time to take a look inward, and see if the shame we might be dealing with is keeping Jesus at arms length or not. Because He's there, willing and waiting to wipe your slate totally clean if you ask Him to. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality and join the community! You'll see when new episodes come up, fun couples challenges, weekly sex positions, tips, & more!!
Grab your cup of cup of coffee & cozy up as Paris & Alana have a really chill, real life chat around prioritizing sex in marriage! We know that we all go through different seasons in our sex lives- could be due to busyness, pregnancy/postpartum, kids, stresses, or so many other things. But making the time to make love despite the craziness of life is so worth it and so important. Be sure to follow us on Instagram if you're not already! @KingdomSexuality Join the community and follow along for fun challenges, weekly sex position ideas, and so much more! Find the book Alana mentions in the episode here: No More Headaches- Juli Slattery
Intimate impromptu questions, anyone?! In today's episode, Alana & Jeff write out a series of intimate questions & Alana interviews Paris & Neil...the catch? Neither Paris nor Neil have any idea what questions they are answering! You are bound to get a good laugh or two as you get a full on real life view on the good, the crazy, and the intimate. Our hopes are that you also gain some laughs, perspective, reflection, encouragement, and relatability as you get a glimpse into the lives of Neil & Paris in this interview. Welcome to our first ever impromptu sesh, The Hot Seat! Be sure to follow us on Instagram to follow along with fun challenges and future episodes: @KingdomSexuality
We're Paris & Alana, friends with a passion for spilling truth around intimacy. In this episode, we begin our series on purity! We chat about how it's important to know why you're saving yourself for marriage, ways to get out of vulnerable situations, & why having a strong community around you is crucial. Be sure to come hang with us over on Instagram! We've got weekly intimate couple challenges, "hump" day Wednesdays, & a bunch of wholesome, beautiful encouragement over here for you! Come join the fun & build community over at: @KingdomSexuality!
Listen along as Alana & Paris each share three ways couples can go about "spicing up" their love lives! In a sexual rut or not, these tips are a great way to help reignite the flame between the sheets, and can just help build connection with your spouse overall! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram (@KingdomSexuality) to build community, see couple challenges, new weekly "hump day" sex position ideas, & so much more! The books Paris recommends are: Intimacy Ignited and Sheet Music. And friends, feel free to email us: kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram with prayer requests, questions, comments, and episode topic suggestions! We'd love to hear from you!
Join Paris & Alana in this extra long myth-busting episode as they share & debunk some myths they believed about sex before they got married! So grab a coffee & pop your headphones in as they chat through four big lies that are commonly believed. Time to kick them in the butt & shine God’s truth on them!! Be sure to follow them along on Instagram (@KingdomSexuality) to see weekly couples challenges, “hump day” chats, & so much more!
Join Paris & Alana as they build a bit of a foundation for the Kingdom Sexuality podcast. Let's start with the basics, shall we? Where does God belong when it comes to our sex lives? How have our view on sex changed from before marriage to after? Find out this & more in this episode of Kingdom Sexuality. Don't forget to come & hang with us over on Instagram! We've got weekly intimate couple challenges, "hump" day Wednesdays, & a bunch of wholesome, beautiful encouragement over here for you! Come join the fun & build community over at: @KingdomSexuality!
We are Paris & Alana, friends with a passion for spilling truths over sex. In this episode, we share our own mini "sextimonies" on each of our biggest sexual hurdles we were faced with within marriage. Hang with us over on Instagram! We've got weekly intimate couple challenges, "hump" day Wednesdays, & a bunch of wholesome, beautiful encouragement over here for you! Come join the fun & build community over at: @KingdomSexuality!
Paris & Alana share their story & hearts on the Kingdom Sexuality podcast coming to life. Follow along as they chat about why they began this passion project around sex & God's design for it within marriage. Welcome here! Hang with us over on Instagram! We've got weekly intimate couple challenges, "hump" day Wednesdays, & a bunch of wholesome, beautiful encouragement over here for you! Come join the fun & build community over at https://www.instagram.com/kingdomsexuality/
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