So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman… only for her to say, “no thanks” to a second. It’s discouraging. Let’s fix that! After last week’s special 4-part Valentine’s Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you don’t want to put in all that effort only to hit a first-date roadblock. Connell and his girlfriend, Jess, break down what made their first date a fun, flirty success—and what you can do to get a LOT more second dates. (Originally aired in November.)In this episode, Connell and Jess discuss:3:20: The Profile Photos that Made Her Swipe Right13:05: The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date18:20: Jess’s Top First-Date Tip29:00: What to Talk About So You Never Run Out of Things to Say30:48: How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned34:15: Jess Called this First Kiss Move “Suave”—You Need to Know It!37:18: How to Ask Women Out for a Second Date39:21: Her Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make45:00: Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”Sick of hearing “Let’s just be friends”?Learn how to get more second dates, starting now.BOOK A CONSULTATION CALL TODAY & GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING DATING GUIDE!Frustrated with dating? Ready to find an amazing girlfriend? Book a FREE call with Connell to see if his coaching is right for you. If you book your call today, you’ll get a free copy of his No. 1 Amazon bestselling book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t.” Spots are limited, and this deal expires today—don’t miss out. Use this link to book your free call now to see if coaching is right for you.www.datingtransformation.com

Do women send you mixed signals—and you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers, Sabrina reveals why “nice guys” lose out, the texting mistakes that get you ghosted, and how to finally land dates with great women on the apps.Sabrina Will Tell You:13:33: How to Stop Taking Rejection Personally and Bounce Back Stronger20:15: The One Texting Mistake that Makes Girls Lose Interest22:48: How to Message Women the Right Way and Stop Getting Ghosted31:27: The Profile Photos and Prompts that Get You Matches33:57: The One Photo You Should NEVER Put on Hinge or Bumble37:47: Why Women Swipe Left—and How to Get them Swiping Right44:12: The Approach Fail that Gets You Rejected Every Time49:36: The WORST Gym Pickup Line Ever—and What to Say InsteadSabrina’s no-B.S. advice will help you start winning at dating. Listen now!LEARN MORE ABOUT SABRINA ZOHAR:http://www.sabrinazohar.comFOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM:@‌TheSabrinaZoharShowLISTEN TO HER PODCAST, ‘THE SABRINA ZOHAR SHOW’http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcastFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You’ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you’ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.Highlights of the Episode:03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or LessYour journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you’ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being “that guy.”You’re About to Learn:2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them47:10: Why Women Ghost You—and the Simple Move to Fix It56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your GymListen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL—so you can get dates!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

You see a woman you’d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone—so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Method—a simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether you’re at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.What You’ll Learn:3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charm—and What to Avoid25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless47:48: The Power of Direct Approaching—When and How to Use It51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy1:10:01: Your 24-Hour Challenge—Are You Ready to Take Action?Listen now and start confidently approaching women—with charm, authenticity, and real results!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

You’re tired of the apps, and you’d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine’s Day here, it’s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way—not with weird “approach tactics” but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women—anywhere, anytime.Episode Highlights:4:25: Why ‘Approaching’ Feels So Hard and Scary13:37: Mental Block #1: ‘I’m Not Enough’ and Why This is Total B.S.16:34: Mental Block #2: ‘She Doesn’t Want Me to Bother Her’ and What Women Really Think17:18: Mental Block #3: ‘I Might Creep Her Out’ and How This Kills Your Confidence19:45: Mental Block #4: ‘I Don’t Know What to Say’ and the Simple Move to Fix This21:16: Mental Block #5: ‘What If I Get Rejected?’ and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You25:33: Breakthrough #1: ‘I Am Enough’ and the Truth About Attraction31:45: Breakthrough #2: ‘She Wants Me to Talk to Her’—What Women Truly Want38:37: Breakthrough #3: ‘Talking to Women Is Attractive’ and the ‘Aha!’ Shift You Need50:12: Breakthrough #4: ‘I Don’t Need the Perfect Line’—How to Know What to Say1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ‘I Cannot Lose’—the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You ConfidentListen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!You’re about to learn:05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the TimeListen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you’re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you’re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you’re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, “I want him!” From confident flirting to texts she can’t resist, you’re about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man… no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you don’t need all 7 superpowers—just unlocking one or two can change everything.Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend MaterialEvery dating superpower is here and learnable. What’s yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)You’re about to learn:2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic YouListen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life23:45: Hayley’s Top Tips for How to Read Women36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make—and How to Fix It50:27: How Hayley Changes Men’s Lives with In-Person CoachingListen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: http://www.hayleyquinn.com/CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWMFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill—live on air. Plus,hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy “pickup artist” tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.You’re about to learn:8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connell’s In-Person Help)18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out29:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes You’ll Do When You Approach Her47:53: What to Write when She Doesn’t Reply to Your Text52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked OnThis episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connell—for free. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com movies. Introducing “It’s Rom-Complicated,” a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood’s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest—his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin—analyze “Groundhog Day,” the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.Episode Highlights:4:05: What’s the One Day from Your Life You Would Relive Again and Again?10:45 How ‘Groundhog Day’ Helped Connell Escape His Own Dating Time Loop17:15: The Rom-Commie Awards: The Best and Worst Dating Moves in ‘Groundhog Day’19:46: Why Arrogant Men like Phil Connors (Bill Murray) Make Women Cringe26:17: The Best Dating Move You Should Absolutely Steal from Phil27:39: The ‘Don’t Do This!’ Award: A Dating Mistake to Avoid IRL31:08: The Creepiest Pickup-Artist Tip Connell Ever Got (And Why It’s So Wrong)36:20: Bill Murray: Comedic Genius or Total Nightmare on Set? (It’s Complicated…)44:46: What if ‘Groundhog Day’ got the Cinemax After Dark Treatment?52:32: The Truth About What Makes Women ‘Chase’ Certain Men (It’s NOT Looks or Money)57:35: The Movie’s Biggest Love Lesson that Every Man Needs to KnowIf Phil can escape Punxsutawney, you can break out of your dating rut. Bing! Listen now!Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to find love by watching—wait! Haven’t we done this before?FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&t=4sFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!You’re about to learn…03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to YouListen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life26:33: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches30:15: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First35:47: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on “The Godfather 3”Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and start landing great Tinder dates today.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much…or Not Enough!18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress HerListen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that womenlove—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.You’re about to learn:02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.Highlights from this episode:01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second DatesHit play and start transforming your love life todayFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle6:38 How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles7:55 Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:https://about.theinnercircle.co/CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results05:45: What Women Really Want—Authenticity!—and How to Give it to Them14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 202551:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great GirlfriendYour dream girl is waiting—don’t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life… higher! Connell and Jake discuss:09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates… and even find your soulmate!Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates2:45: No. 7: The League—it’s About Quality, Not Quantity4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren’t Hollywood Handsome7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony—Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women15:15: No. 2: Bumble’s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is… Hinge! Here’s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating AppsTune in now to turn your swipes into sparks—and matches into love!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidden dating mistakes men make. You’ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advice column.)You’re about to learn:2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman you’ve just met6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love33:00: The single biggest dating mistake you’re making39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement59:17: Lisa’s no. 1 dating tip that every man must knowAre you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:http://GoodMenProject.comCHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECT’S DATING SUBSTACK:http://gmpdating.substack.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.comQuotes"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey

It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You’re about to learn:6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw—and How to Talk about it On Your Profile14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic “DILF” Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have FunHit “play” now and start getting good matches on the apps.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.comQuotes"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach

Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every TimeListen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.comQuotes"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett

Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on DatesListen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com.Quotes"Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack

Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becominga bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “you need to become a high-value man.”Here’s what you’ll learn in Connell and Garrain’s powerful conversation:3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic “Alpha Males”32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man’s Secret Flirting Weapon—and How to Use It39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date60:03 Garrain’s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling AgainIt’s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONES’S INCREDIBLE STORY:https://www.garrainjones.com/TO APPLY TO HIS “ARTIST POWER” PROGRAM:https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-programREAD GARRAIN’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFE”:https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and charming—wonderful women.Here are some highlights from Eric’s coaching session with Connell:6:45—How to Talk with Women Authentically—Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist10:50—Connell’s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman11:30—The “Karaoke Opener,” Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas19:10—The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00—How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches31:23—The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction39:30—What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It’s Not What You Think!)46:20—3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers52:01—The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her1:03:08—Learn the “Push-Pull,” the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone1:09:02—How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)1:12:17—The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches1:20:00—Why Women LOVE “Interview Mode”… When You Do it Connell’s WayAre you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring—or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, “Wait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.” Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated “Passion Struck” podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemy—and How to Build Self-Worth17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Dates—and Why They Love It28:15 How John’s Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One40:47 How to Show a Woman You’re Dating that She Truly Matters42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women LaughingListen now and take your love life from dull to dynamic—because you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHN AND HIS COACHING:www.johnrmiles.com/TO GET JOHN’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘PASSION STRUCK’:https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional-ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1707604358&sr=1-1TO LISTEN TO JOHN’S TOP-RATED PODCAST:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-struck-with-john-r-miles/id1553279283TO HIRE JOHN AS A KEYNOTE SPEAKER:www.harrywalker.com/speakers/john-r-milesWATCH JOHN’S INSPIRING YOUTUBE CHANNEL:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW7cQNjZTEAFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.comQuotes"Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles"Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles

Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)25:25 – Connell’s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don’t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game: “5 Questions,” to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with YouStop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again.” Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of “The Noble Art of Seduction,” Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. “Guys don’t want to hear bulls*it,” she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. “They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.”You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”(13:12) “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase YouAre you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!Featured GuestKezia Noble, The World’s Leading Female Dating and Attraction ExpertTO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMSwww.kezia-noble.com/VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNELhttp://www.youtube.com/@KezianobledatingexpertGET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHINGhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/contactFOR FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACHhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30Quotes"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble

Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls “outside the box,” a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Matt’s breakthrough:5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars8:31 Connell Identifies the “Invisible Wall” that Stops Matt from Approaching14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women20:32 Connell Shares “the Biggest Secret” to Confidently Approaching23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way58:21 The Hinge Prompt that’s CRUSHING for Connell and His ClientsAfter their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girls—the kinds of women he’d been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today’s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness(20:00) How Lindsey’s Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet(29:50) How to Tell if She’s into You(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk About…and NOT to Talk About(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!(1:01:44) Lindsey’s Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to KnowAre you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!READ LINDSEY’S SUBSTACKhttps://wemetatacme.substack.com/CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCASTWe Met At AcmeGO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWShttp://www.wemetatacme.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHINGhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACHhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30

In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown’s “Daring Greatly.”In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:(5:03) How Connell’s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole(50:22) Dr. Glover’s Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman’s Phone Number(1:09:45) Dr. Glover’s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend ZoneAre you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER’S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”http://www.drglover.comFOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/Xhttp://www.twitter.com/dr_r_gloverFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

If you don’t know what to talk about or how to flirt on first dates, this is the episode for you. In part 5 of this week-long series on how to get a girlfriend, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his romantic partner Jessamin. The couple breaks down the fun, connected first date that put them on the path to love. What do women from want on dates? Jessamin will tell you!In this episode, Connell and Jessamin will discuss:(3:20) The Photos on His Profile that Made Her Swipe Right(3:55) The Kinds of Photos NOT to Use(13:05) The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date(15:00) How to Write Light, Flirty Messages to Keep from Getting Ghosted(18:20) Jessamin’s Top First-Date Tip(26:30) How to Make a Great First Impression(29:00) What to Talk About to Never Run out of Things to Say(30:48) How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned(34:15) The Simple Way Connell Went in for the First Kiss(37:18) How to Ask Her Out for a Second Date(39:21) Jessamin’s Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make(45:00) Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”Are you ready to stop hearing “Let’s be friends” and start getting second dates? Listen now.Quotes"Seize your first impression in online dating—it's your chance to stand out from the start." - Jessamin"Great conversations flow when your humor and interests align." - JessaminFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: https://datingtransformation.com/contact/TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH: https://datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30/

Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach—shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you’ll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted “PUA” Tactics(7:15) Why Connell’s Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy(41:15) How Connell’s Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this EpisodeAre you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!Quotes"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell BarnettFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this EpisodeAre you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!Quotes"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to SayAre you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30Quotes"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett

Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!In this episode, Connell will tell you:(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”Quotes"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women22:11 - Outro

Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro

Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time27:07 - Outro

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia

If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule38:40 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits24:00 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Inrtoduction00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication33:24 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.23:21 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?Today’s special guest can help!Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney WarrenFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFeatured GuestCortney WarrenWebsite: http://www.drcortney.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/Chapters00:00 - Introduction04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene46:11 - ConclusionPowered by Heartcastmedia

You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts downThe top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia

The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners26:11 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Featured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationRobbie KramerLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/Chapters00:00 - Introduction00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating52:10 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3QuotesFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity31:17 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!Quotes"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey37:00 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…2:17 The first rule of flirting4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection7:31 The right posture and eye contact8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into youListen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile31:03 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send17:10 Why authenticity is what women want21:00 How NOT to overshare with women35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup movesneeded.)John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.Connell and John are about to teach you how to…How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoyGet HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interestFlirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.Be more self-confident TODAYAnd a lot more!Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." JohnFeatured in the episodeJohnConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way42:53 - Outro

If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy• The secret to self-confidence with women• How to flirt with women with charm, and no pickup tricks• How to gets dates in a matter of days!And a lot more.Listen to Connell’s live-coaching session with Ryan, as he has some BIG dating breakthroughs. It’s time to stop struggling in your love life, and to start attracting wonderful women, as your most authentic, confident self. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"So the lack of eye contact comes from your social discomfort. With doing this combined with those confidence pieces of confidence kryptonite. Okay? It's gonna take time." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction06:21 - Transforming Negativity into Positive Action06:54 - Identifying Confidence Kryptonite: Building a Strong Foundation13:23 - Discovering Areas Where You Feel Amazing17:13 - Energy, Eye Contact, Confidence: Women's Response20:38 - Extended Phone Sessions: Transformation and Confidence Talks24:24 - Flirting Confidently: Asking About Her Eye Color26:06 - Utilizing Colorblindness to Spark Conversations30:03 - Overcoming Worry, Self-Doubt, and Overthinking31:42 - Politeness in Approaching and Asking Someone Out38:02 - Embracing Internal Validation, Ignoring External Sources39:15 - Approaching: Not Weird, Actually Creepy Not To42:25 - The Risky, Yet Safe Strategy: Confident Approaches46:08 - Letting Go of Unrequited Love and the Past49:06 - Accepting Rejection, Focusing on Future Opportunities55:05 - Practicing Confidence: Voice, Approach, and Growth55:51 - The Admiration for Social Charm and Gentlemen56:10 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn…Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching actionA texting tip you’ve NEVER heard beforeThe biggest dating mistake he ever made, which led to his biggest breakthroughHow to NOT get ghostedA confidence “hack” to make you feel MUCH more attractiveListen now, so you can STOP feeling stuck with women, and START making sparks fly with cool, cute girls, as your most authentic self.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“I sound like the love child of Suzanne Pleshette and Danny DeVito” -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:58 - Ignite Change: Embrace Disturbance and Take Massive Action05:35 - The Internal Struggle: Devil Stabs Angel, Motivation to Approach Women06:58 - Personalized Guidance: Boosting Confidence and Attracting Women11:20 - The Regret of Hiding: Learning from Dating Mistakes12:21 - Creating a Persona: Embellishing Adventures for Compatibility13:37 - A Year of Transformation: Taking Positive Action and Embracing Authenticity16:09 - Transforming Confidence: Finding your Dream Girl Through Self-Improvement19:27 - Crafting Engaging Texts: Building Excitement and Intrigue22:18 - Authenticity Over Lines: Emphasizing Confidence in Dating21:18 - The Common Question: What to Say When Approaching a Woman?24:12 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway.The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Changing Photos that you need to get a LOT more matches (and dates!) on the apps.These are the 6 specific kinds of photos that Connell and his clients have used to get thousands of matches with bright, beautiful women.So listen now and upload 6 game-changing photos to YOUR profile, and turn your phone into a date-generating machine!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“If you’re not getting matches on the apps, it’s NOT that you’re not enough. You’re awesome! But your portraits aren’t enough.” -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:52 - The 6 Game-Changing Photos for a Successful Dating Profile04:43 - From Jacket and Tie to Casual Style: Portraying Confidence in Photos05:31 - The 'Ah' Photo That Tugs at Her Heartstring07:08 - Boosting Confidence and Connections: Guidance from a Dating Coach10:53 - Activity and Masculinity: The 4th Photo, Social Settings with Friends for the 5th11:15 - The Dance Floor Connection: Capturing Unforgettable Moments in Photos13:20 - Inviting Her into Your Life: Giving a Glimpse of Exciting Experiences14:49 - From Fence-Sitter to Hell Yeah: The Power of the Goosh Photo17:07 - Fun, Silly, and Memorable: Crafting the Perfect 6th Photo20:12 - Game-Changing Photos for Dating Apps: A Quick Recap22:12 - Unveiling Online Dating Success: The Power of Your Photos23:55 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“Avoid dating someone you supervise or who supervises you. Workplace romances can be problematic, especially when a power dynamic is involved.” - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:12 - The Love-Hate Relationship with Romcoms: Comedy vs. Strategies03:50 - Connell Barrett's Review of 'Love Actually'08:12 - The Danger of Inappropriate Workplace Relationships13:23 - Advocation for the First-Kiss Initiative15:27 - Cautionary Advice Against Desperate Romantic Gestures18:20 - Embracing Romantic Risks for Love and Connection21:49 - Lessons to Learn: Dating Strategy from 'Love Actually23:57 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?And you have no idea what you did wrong!Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer.Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him.And then he fixed it! How?In this episode, Connell shares three simple strategies he used to go from being Mr. Dull to authentically charismatic.Listen now, and take your love life from boring to SOARING!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You can go from boring to charismatic with women if you convey an authentic, real, raw version of yourself." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:19 - Breaking the Cycle: How to Avoid Being a Boring Date04:37 - Unconventional Love Story: Shelley and the Old Carriage Man07:14 - Dating Transformation with Connell: Revamping Your Dating Life11:09 - Mastering Compelling and Emotionally Charged Dating Approaches15:53 - Role Reversal and Playful Confidence: Spice Up Your Dates19:44 - Engagement Ring Role Play: Adding Fun and Playfulness to Dates20:30 - The Power of Opposite Texting After a First Date23:56 - Compelling Conversations: Personal Topics and Emotional Engagement28:08 - Movie Preferences and Conversation Tips33:27 - Attracting Women through Radical Authenticity36:32 - Unleashing Your Charisma: Expressiveness, Emotional Connection, and Humor38:56 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.And he fixed them all!In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.”Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"YOU don't suck. You're amazing! But your dating profile sucks. Fix your profile and you'll fix your dating life." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationhttps://www.heartcastmedia.comChapters00:00 - Introduction00:58 - Life and Dating Advice for a Younger Self03:10 - The First Big Moment: Women Showing Interest08:51 - Authenticity: The Magic Bullet in Dating12:32 - Online Dating: A Digital Marketing Perspective16:08 - A Deal Between Friends: Follow Each Other's Instructions19:20 - Overcoming the Creepiness Factor22:25 - A Major Turning Point: Confident Approach and Tonality24:20 - Give to Get: Making Her Feel Special28:06 - Shifting Focus: From Ego to Giving30:44 - Magical Moments: Rainy Make-Outs and Potential Partners36:41 - The Temperature Rises: A Friend's Remark38:07 - The Power of Delivery: Tone and Non-Verbal Communication40:50 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share.Connell and Melanie team up to talk about…8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go for the first kiss22:00: What to say to your date when you’re nervous and NOT confident29:00: How to improve your flirty banter on dates41:30: What women are really looking for from men42:25: The right (and WRONG) ways to approach a womanAnd a lot more!Listen to the amazing Melanie Sutrathada wax eloquent about dating, true-crime, traveling the world, and much more.SEE MELANIE TRAVEL THE WORLD ON INSTAGRAM: @‌melaniesutraCHECK OUT HER HOSTING AND ACTING SKILLS ON HER WEBSITE:Melanie Sutrathada | Actor ∙ Host ∙ Content CreatorFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell BarrettGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You have to shoot your shot and take chances, in life and in love, because tomorrow isn't promised to us." -Melanie SutrathadaFeatured in the episodeMelanie SutrathadaInstagram: @‌melaniesutraWebsite: http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:42 - Embracing Multiple Roles: Actor, Host, Lifestyle Expert04:37 - The Art of the Wingman: Navigating New York Dating08:22 - Prioritizing Experiences over Money: Life's True Essence10:17 - Seizing the Present: Acting Now in an Uncertain Tomorrow15:27 - Self-Discovery, Love, and Sports: Years of Adventure18:55 - The Awkwardness of Distant Date First Kisses22:15 - Exciting Dates that Check Off Your Bucket List25:38 - Cultivating Meaningful Connections through Honesty and Vulnerability33:08 - The Power of Active Listening in Meaningful Conversations36:08 - Expressing Compatibility and Nurturing Potential Relationships41:26 - Heartwarming Note from Jess's Cat, Boots45:25 - Seeking a Confident, Non-Jealous, and Initiative-Taking Partner51:09 - Acts of Kindness: Crossing Paths with the Right Person54:13 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober?Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage?In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently attract the right woman for you, sans alcohol. You’re about to learn…3:45: How to confidently approach totally sober5:32: Why your sober, authentic self is your MOST attractive, confident you9:30: How sober dating makes it EASIER for you to make charming moves that women enjoy11:45: How to feel confident as soon as you walk into a social venue16:00: The Hinge prompt you can use today to get a LOT more matches20:40: How to talk about your sobriety with a woman in an honest, attractive wayPLUS: A LOT of fun first-date ideas that don’t involve drinking.Are you ready to say goodbye to your former wingmen (Johnnie, Jack and Bud) and instead attract women by being your best, most authentic and SOBER self?(WARNING: You MIGHT get drunk on your own awesomeness.) Listen now!ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You don't need liquid courage to approach women or make moves. You need ACTUAL courage. And unlike the liquid kind, courage is free, healthy and unlimited." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:12 - Breaking the Habit: Conquering Drinking on Dates04:19 - Sobriety and Approaching Women: Overcoming Challenges09:19 - Better Results, Sober Approaches: Unlocking Confidence15:55 - Boosting Confidence and Sobriety: Approaching Women with Purpose18:46 - Enhancing Matches: Non-Alcoholic Date Planning Tips22:25 - Hinge Tips: Incorporating Sobriety and Trends25:46 - Catering to Her Preferences: Planning a Wine-Loving Date31:16 - Handling Dating Questions with Diplomacy33:17 - Embracing Fear, Taking Romantic Risks, and Building Empathy37:24 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whiskey each month), the moment he hit bottom, and how he finally became “a booze-free bad-ass.” If you’re a guy who wants to meet and date wonderful women and do it sober, this episode is for you.Or if you have ANY addiction that’s hurting your love life—alcohol, porn, pills, food—listen NOW, so you can slay the dragon of dependency and date with confidence.Are you ready to STOP using substances and START getting “drunk” on your own AUTHENTIC awesomeness... and find your soulmate? Listen now!A SPECIAL SHOUT-OUT FROM CONNELL TO THE FOLLOWING AMAZING PEOPLE, WHOSE INSPIRING PODCASTS PROMOTE THE LIFE CHANGING POWER OF SOBRIETY:DAX SHEPARD, ARMCHAIR EXPERThttps://armchairexpertpod.com/podsNATE KELLY, THE SOBRIETY DIARIEShttps://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diariesSHANE RAMER, THAT SOBER GUYhttps://www.thatsoberguy.com/JAMES SWANWICK, ALCOHOL-FREE LIFESTYLEhttps://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepageANDREW HUBERMAN, HUBERMAN LABhttps://www.hubermanlab.com/podcastARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK AFREE CALL WITH CONNELL:Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barretthttp://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Take it from a sober dater: You don't need alcohol to confidently connect with women. You can get 'drunk' on your own authentic awesomeness."Featured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:41 - Conquering Addictions: Alcohol and Pornography03:18 - Life Implications: Dating Coach Grapples with Alcohol Dependence09:03 - The Downside of Indulgence: Body Changes and Erectile Dysfunction12:35 - Shifting Perspectives: Alcohol Recognized as Poison15:50 - Impending Perils: The Future Impact of Harmful Behaviors19:11 - Joy in Change: Celebrating Sobriety and Weight Loss at Birthday23:19 - A Sober Night Out: Reclaiming Confidence Without Alcohol26:41 - Empowering Change: Assisting Men Towards Alcohol Independence30:04 - The Reality Check: Analyzing Addiction Costs and Recovery Benefits31:21 - Substitute with Health: Replacing Harmful Habits with Beneficial Alternatives34:25 - Awaiting Your Authentic Self: Your Dream Girl's Expectations34:39 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more.So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barretthttp://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Approaching women is NOT creepy, as long as you do it with authenticity and good intentions."Featured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:12 - Flirting Mastery: Immediate Approaches04:31 - Genuine Attraction: Key to Connection05:39 - Standing Out in the Crowd: Authentic Compliments that Elevate Your Charm09:35 - The Art of Persistence: How the 3-Times Rule Facilitates Connection11:52 - Key Strategies for Maintaining Engaging Conversation12:55 - Authenticity: Lower Expectations, Share Stories16:35 - Decoding Women's Signals: Assertive Approaches17:39 - First Interaction: Nervous Yet Cool20:48 - Joining Groups: Attract through Shared Interests24:37 - Conversation Skills: Humor, Wit, and Authenticity27:47 - Free Consultation: Dating Life Transformation28:09 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance.So let’s amp up the fun factor.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conversations WAY more fun. Also, he’ll give you his No. 1 favorite game to play on a date, and it’s sure to get you both laughing and having a blast.It’s time you STOP hearing women say “I just didn’t feel a spark” and START hearing them say, “Last night was fun! When can we go out again?” Listen now, because Cyndi Lauper was right: “Girls just wanna have fun.”FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Cyndi Lauper was right: Girls just wanna have fun. If she has fun with you on a date, she'll want to see you again."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:45 - Creating Laughter and Fun for Unforgettable Moments03:35 - Mastering the Art of Making Dates More Enjoyable08:13 - Success Through a Playful Approach12:25 - Focusing on Positivity and Meaningful Conversations14:34 - Unlocking Romance Through Emotions and Passions18:20 - From Boring to Exciting: The Power of Fun Topics22:45 - Choosing Enjoyable First Date Activities26:50 - Sparking Conversations with Fun First Date Questions30:01 - The '5 Questions Game: Getting It All Wrong33:46 - The Art of Pretending and Posing Questions35:09 - Turning the Tables: Trick Questions and Victory39:17 - Revealing Nature Through Trick Questions40:40 - Fun Questions and Game Recommendations41:23 - Outro

Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?Let’s fix this!In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, about a guy who went from the Friend Zone on first dates to FIREWORKS. (Your jaw will drop.)Listen now, so you can start having fun, sexy, connected first dates… and do it as your most confident, authentic self.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"There's nothing wrong with fear, but there's something very wrong with cowardice. Sculpt a dating life of authenticity and courage, no cowardice allowed." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:40 - From Struggles to Coaching: Connell's Dating Journey03:53 - Busting First Date Myths: The Quest for Truth05:19 - Flirting Dos and Don'ts: Avoiding Surprises06:06 - Bill's Journey: Overcoming the First Date Struggle07:11 - Transforming Your Dating Life with Connell's Coaching10:22 - First Kiss Realizations: Making Her Feel Desirable11:01 - Deciphering Women's Desires: A Constant Interest12:39 - Embracing Courage: Transforming Dating Fears18:55 - The First Kiss and Deeper Connections20:18 - Debunking First Date Myths: Quick Insights24:05 - Impressing Women with Authenticity: The Key to Success24:54 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating.Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU!In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbreaking philosophy that his entire coaching empire is based on: Radical Authenticity. It’s all about awakening your most confident, attractive self, as you date with total integrity… and zero creepy “pickup” tricks. It’s how to make sparks fly with wonderful women.Listen now, and unlock the power of Radical Authenticity…so you can find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"By being Radically Authentic with women, you become more confident, and you create genuine trust and connection." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro00:56 - Authenticity: The Key to Dating Success04:51 - From Awkward Jokes to Confidence: Emulating Seinfeld's George05:48 - Authentic Dating: Exploring the 'Opposite' Approach07:09 - Building Confidence: Attracting Your Dream Girlfriend10:22 - Unleashing Dad Jokes and Cheeky Charm in Dating11:09 - Bar Adventures: Teasing, Joking, and Kissing15:11 - Embracing Authentic Moments: Not About Ego24:42 - The Value of Being True to Yourself: A Formula for Success13:01 - A 10-Minute Connection: The Power of Confidence18:57 - Radical Authenticity: Attracting Women with Confidence22:24 - Embracing Authenticity: Dropping the Masks in Dating25:23 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the 5 Escalation Secrets you need on dates to stop hearing, “Let’s be friends” and start heading, “Let’s go out again!” You’re about to get the keys to escape the Friend Zone. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Think of flirting on a date as a dance of connection. It's your job, not hers, to lead that dance." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:01 - Conscious Escalation: Navigating Romance in Dating04:36 - Minimal Touch, Uncertain Connection: A Sensual Journey08:26 - The Seductive Walk: Where Connection Begins11:29 - Decisions in Dating: Verbal and Physical Escalation13:55 - Escalating with Intent: Mastering the Five Date Escalators16:17 - Tactics for Escalating Romance: The Art of Dating19:58 - Learning from the Past: Evaluating Your Dating Choices22:35 - Keys to Successful and Respectful Dating Escalation24:35 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud?Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action and getting real dating momentum, so you can do things like approach attractive women, make moves on dates, and flirt with charm and confidence.Listen now, and become a Man of Authentic Action.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"For great dating results, you need to consume less information and take more action. As Shakespeare wrote, action is eloquence."-Connell Barrett’Featured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:35 - Dating Game Mastery: Turning Conversations into Dates03:42 - The Overrated Value of Information in Attraction04:33 - Content vs. Courage: Navigating the Dating Dilemma05:18 - Paul's Challenge: Moving from Consumption to Action09:51 - Overcoming the 'Perfect Approach' Paralysis13:29 - Embracing the 'A+ Approach' Mantra14:56 - Dating Breakthroughs: Authentic Action and Interaction19:24 - Meet Gerald: The Diligent Convention Note-Taker21:21 - Conquering Excuses and Brain Sabotage23:47 - Choosing Action Over Fear: Your Journey to Romance25:04 - How My First Approach Changed Everything25:45 - From Fear to Connection: Overcoming and Taking Action27:04 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes.Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he unveils 6 tested moves to help you get out of your head and into the present moment… so you can have fun, flirty dates and stimulating conversations.Listen now, and give her a present: your presence!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Lower the conversational bar when talking to women. You're just chatting, not doing standup comedy or a TED Talk." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:12 - The Science of Staying in the Moment00:43 - Overcoming Overthinking When Talking to Women03:06 - Impress Women on Dates with Confidence08:37 - Simplify: Uncovering Your Natural Wit11:10 - Authentic Conversations: Lowering the Pressure and Being Yourself15:11 - Promote Positivity: Avoid Sharing Negative Thoughts and Feelings19:44 - Engaging Conversation: Exploring the University of Texas20:54 - Making Connections: The Impact of Active Listening23:10 - Focus on Her Happiness in Dating26:52 - Elevate Conversations with Backup Topics28:08 - The Comfort of a Conversation Safety Net31:17 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates.Listen now, and flip the Coin of Self-Assessment, so you can stop hating dating, and start having more fun, more confidence, and more great dates.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Stop judging yourself. Be kind. With every date, you either win or you learn. And learning will lead you to love."-Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:19 - Flipping the Coin of Self-Assessment in Dating Interactions04:38 - The Power of Positive Self-Assessment in Dating06:09 - Confronting the Inner Critic: Battling Self-Judgment in Dating07:30 - Boost Your Confidence and Improve Your Dating Life11:45 - Conquering Self-Doubt: How I Overcame My Inner Critic in Dating12:19 - One Game-Changing Tip for More Genuine Connections15:18 - The Value of Self-Assessment: Unearthing Genuine Emotions16:34 - Cultivating Positive Self-Perception in Dating19:58 - Constructive Self-Assessment: A Crucial Lesson in Dating22:33 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this.In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone into a date-generating machine, listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"No fish photos allowed on your dating profile. She wants to date you, not the captain from 'Jaws."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:28 - Solving Online Dating Struggles: Tips and Tricks05:59 - From Desperation to One Match: A Journey09:03 - Rock Bottom as a Turning Point09:52 - The Marketing Mindset: How Online Dating Really Works11:16 - Dating App Gender Imbalance: Challenges for Men15:06 - Southwest Airlines' Transparency and Marketing Insights17:13 - Cracking the Code: How Women Navigate Dating Apps19:43 - Tinder Filters: Women's Perspective20:30 - Tinder Tips: Engaging with Photos and Bio24:36 - Mastering Online Dating: The Power of Portraits28:42 - Elevating Your Profile: Professional Dating Portraits29:53 - Dress for Success: Outfit Choices in Online Dating31:39 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women.Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Good texts before a date are like movie trailers -- they build buzz and get her excited for the main event."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:55 - Transforming Lackluster First Dates into Spark-Filled Connections04:19 - Unlocking the Art of Flirty Texting Before Your First Date08:37 - Creating Excitement with Fun and Engaging Texts11:45 - Building Anticipation: Preparing Her for a Memorable Date14:26 - Light-hearted Delays: Turning Lateness into Playful Banter16:29 - From Jackass to Awesome: How Vulnerable Stories Win Hearts19:25 - "Opening Hearts: The Magic of Raw and Real Storytelling23:10 - Fun and Connection: Games That Elevate First Dates24:51 - The Magic of Eye Contact: Staring Contests and Romance27:31 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going.It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells you how to harness the power of decisive action, so that you can make the kind of bold, attractive moves that women love.Listen now to become a man of action… and find your future girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"To go from feeling lonely to finding love, use your secret weapon: decisive, courageous action"- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:20 - The Power of Decision: Overcoming Uncomfortable Actions04:20 - Encouraging the Leap into Uncomfortable Territory08:37 - The Power of Taking That First Step: James' Success Story11:29 - James' Approach: Facing Discomfort Head-On14:35 - Conquering Approach Anxiety for Fearless Dating19:28 - How I Went from Shying Away to Taking Romantic Risks22:49 - Redefining Dating: Stepping Up to Take Risks24:52 - Dancing with Confidence: A Fearless Dating Experiment26:22 - Fearless Dating: Making Decisions That Change Everything28:46 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch!And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date.No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 7 tested ways to confidently go for—and get!—that first kiss with a woman, in a romantic way she’ll love. Plus, he reveals how to know when you have the green light make your move, as a true gentleman.If you want your next date to end with a steamy make-out, then listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“You likely won't lose her interest by going for a kiss and not getting it. You WILL lose if you want to kiss her but you let fear stop you from trying." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 – Introduction01:46 - The First Kiss: Key to Progressing Romantically03:26 - The Magic of First Kiss Moments in Dating07:06 - Overcoming Doubt and Finding the Confidence to Kiss08:54 - Regret and Redemption: Making Up for Missed Moments12:19 - Turning Sparks into Flames: The First Kiss Strategy14:44 - Reading Her Signals: When to Go for the Kiss17:56 - Making the Right Move: When to Lean In20:39 - Boldness Pays Off: The Impact of a Confident Kiss25:19 - Going After What You Want: Doug's First Kiss Story35:12 - Avoiding the Annoying Make-Out Couple Trap37:16 - Balancing Passion and Temptation: The Kiss Frequency39:07 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence.Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares some of his favorite ways to make sparks fly with women, whether you’re on a first date, chatting at a social event, or texting your latest crush. Tired of getting stuck in the Friend Zone? Listen now and get in the Flirting Zone!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Speak your deepest, most honest truth. Women love it when a man has the courage to be authentic." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 – Introduction01:06 - Attraction Mastery: Man to Woman Communication03:21 - Navigating the Friend-to-Friend Channel on Dates07:04 - Breaking Free from Transactional Interactions10:06 - Unexpected Charm: When Wit Takes the Lead14:01 - The Magic of Emotional Nakedness in Dating18:10 - Playful Banter: Flipping the Seduction Script22:02 - The Charismatic Pathway: Using Stories to Connect24:52 - First Date Gold: Choosing the Right Embarrassing Story26:53 - Your Best Dating Weapon: Self-Deprecating Stories28:12 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good.The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shows you how the “3 Times Rule” can get a girl to go from ghosting you to dating. So listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"The 3 Times Rule will get attractive women to stop ghosting you and to start chasing you."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:01 - Ending Ghosting and Getting More Dates06:59 - Navigating Rejection with Resilience in the Dating Scene08:41 - Turning Setbacks into Comebacks13:23 - The Art of Fun Approaching: A Story of Resilience17:54 - The Crucial Role of Resilience in Dating and Life20:02 - Gerald's Resilience: From Flat to Flirty22:53 - Overcoming Addiction: A Client's Journey to Fitness27:39 - Texting Challenges: Resilience and Charm in Dating34:39 - The 'Three Strikes' Rule: Mastering Dating Persistence37:14 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women.Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett helps you smash out of the toxic “man box” you may be trapped in, so you can be free to express your most authentic, masculine and also feminine self.It’s time to ignore toxic “pickup” creeps and embrace your best, most authentic self. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“Vulnerability is being so unwilling to NOT look cool that a woman thinks, 'Wow, this guy is SO cool!' - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:20 - Introduction03:03 - How Masculine and Feminine Energies Fuel Attraction07:07 - The Dream Combo: Being Strong Yet Soft in Love and Life09:43 - The Power of Kindness: Why Compassion is the New Sexy12:37 - Beyond the Alpha Male Stereotype14:29 - Why Women Love a Man of Many Sides19:10 - The Courage to Not Care How Manly You Look26:13 - Cultivating Emotional Depth in Relationships21:08 - Coping With Disappointment and Finding Humor in It30:56 - Outro

Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off26:27 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating40:12 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four practical steps to feel more attractive and magnetic than ever. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start dating amazing women.Listen now and transform your confidence!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Confidence is like chocolate, money, and fresh air: You can never have too much of it."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:22 - Empower YourDating Journey: The 4 Pillars of Confidence03:34 - Dating Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Your Worth07:32 - Redefining Attraction: Embracing Your Unique Self08:58 - Belief in Action: Driving Towards Dating Success12:42 - Defying Stereotypes: Embrace Your Unique Qualities15:53 - Empowering Self-Image: Embrace Your Authentic Worth18:40 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically24:16 - Building Abundance: Elevate Your Dating Options28:36 - Thriving with Dating Abundance Mindset31:17 - Letting Go of Outcome and Embracing Process34:31 - Dating with Certainty: Letting Confidence Lead the Way26:13 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt with women, and how to do it with natural confidence and authenticity, to create real connections.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"When you flirt with true authenticity, you're giving women the gift that they most want: the real, best you!".-Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:48 - The Right and Wrong Ways to Communicate with Women03:02 - Waiter Persona: Navigating Over-the-Top Communication06:43 - The Power of Being Present and Genuine09:24 - Avoiding Supplicating Pitfalls: Mastering Dating Channels13:20 - Authentic Attraction: Beyond Supplication and Cockiness17:48 - Genuine Connection over Performative Acts19:14 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically21:12 - Real Talk: Forging Genuine Bonds in Dating23:10 - Building Trust: Authenticity and Shit Detectors24:38 - Breaking Barriers: Honesty and Connection in Dating26:19 - Story Swapping: Crafting Memorable Conversations29:47 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or steely self-confidence when you talk to your crush. Listen now and give women what they REALLY want: a feel-good experience with your most attractive, authentic self.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett "Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell BarretFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters: 00:22 - Introduction01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance37:43 - Outro

So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:05 - Introduction05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro

You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:36 - Introduction01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes22:35 - Outro

Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.Listen now, to make your next date great.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions27:53 - Outro

If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:14 - Introduction04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals22:35 - Fear & Failure: The Road to Dating Success24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence28:34 - Outro

Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:13 - Introduction01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication04:48 - Emotional & Romantic Expressions in Dating07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective33:02 - Outro

There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she helped him become more empathetic to this overdue movement. Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TOALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET AGIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Yes, a Radically Authentic man has romantic love in his heart for women, but he also has a higher, selfless love in his heart for all people."- Connelll Barrett"Being a man is not about how good you are with women, but how good you are to women." - Connelll Barrett"Let's celebrate women for their individuality and respect their right to express themselves " - Connelll BarrettChapters00:00 - Introduction02:18 - Overcoming Dating Challenges08:45 - Confidence and Approaching Women13:10 - Being Respectful in Dating14:20 - Expert Tips on Attracting and Flirting15:30 - 7 Dating Mistakes : Avoiding Ghosting in the MeToo Era17:55 - Finding Genuine Connections19:40 - Journey of Educating on Sexual Assault21:10 - Empathy and Authenticity in Relationships23:40 - Learning Empathy and Respect24:23 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares 15 tested tips to help you flirt with charm and total respect for women, as the gentleman you are. The good news? Dating today is easier than you think, when you put these tips into practice. Listen now, to make sparks fly with class, heart and empathy.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TOALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"What makes you a man is not how good you are with women, but how good you are TO women." -Connell Barrett."Women appreciate pursuit, but respect boundaries and prioritize consent."- Connelll Barrett"Focus on creating connections, Let romance unfold naturally."- Connelll BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnelll BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:13 - Empowering Men in Dating06:45 - The "Lunch" Dilemma: Making a Move with Respect10:20 - Embracing Me Too: Empathy and Awareness14:05 - Understanding Flirting, Misconduct, and Harassment17:30 - Decoding Flirting: Respectful Approaches19:52 - Balancing Interest and Respectful Consent20:45 - The Art of Persistence: Respecting Boundaries23:52 - Success Stories vs. Harassment: Lessons Learned27:10 - The Rewards of Respectful Persistence30:15 - Dating Successfully in the Me Too Era30:55 - ConclusionThis podcast is produced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths that are hurting your love life, and he shares 5 quick tips you can use to transform romantic results. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Nice guys are sexier than 6 pack abs as long as you cultivate that sense of worthiness and confidence."- Connell Barrett"Having cash and a cool job is a nice bonus in the eyes of women, but it doesn't ignite connection and attraction."- Connell Barrett"Instead of focusing on what you think you lack, play to your strengths and boost your confidence."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:51 Introduction01:39 Unveiling Authentic Flirting: Debunking Myths05:04 Attracting Women: Beyond Lamborghinis and Cash06:41 Looks Don't Define You: Embrace Your Appeal09:52 Kindness Matters: Prioritizing What Women Truly Value13:31 Jason's Success Story: Connecting Through Passion and Authenticity17:02 Embracing Body Diversity: Attraction Beyond Shapes20:35 The Charisma of Darren: Humor's Captivating Power24:05 Nice Guys Finish First: The Desirability of Kindness26:32 Nice Guys: Confidence and Sexiness Unleashed31:49 Approaching Confidently: Overcoming Creep Stereotypes33:01 Embracing Natural Connections: Genuine Interactions34:46 Outro

Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the conversation flowing and flirty. Plus: how to go for the first kiss!Quotes"I take pride in being a great listener, allowing others to express themselves fully."-Tom"I value girls sharing their thoughts, it helps me listen & understand." - Tom"A genuine connection can be established by steering the conversation back on track, and women will genuinely appreciate your effort in doing so." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeTom(Guest)Connell Barrett(Host)Founder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:27 Introduction07:22 Navigating Fatigue and Enhancing Engagement on Dates12:12 Conversational Tips: Avoiding Awkward Silences22:15 Authenticity and Sincerity: Keeping the Conversation Real24:45 Emotional Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of Opening Up29:21 Taking Chances and Embracing Vulnerability34:55 Charming Responses: Deflecting Personal Relationship Questions43:44 Keeping the Date Focused on Each Other49:27 From Lighthearted to Genuine: Building Deeper Connections58:05 Geeky Banter and Smooth Date Requests: A Bumble Success Story58:05 Building Emotional Connection: Before Asking for a Date01:06:18 Outro

When you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?” Hello, Friend Zone. In dating, fear of rejection is the Big Bad Wolf. It costs you confidence and romantic success. In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you cure your fear of rejection, so you can confidently approach women, make the right moves on dates, and attract your dream girlfriend, as your best, most authentic self. Listen now, so you can stop fearing rejection and start confidently dating wonderful women.Quotes"Every approach is a success; it's either a date or another brick in the cathedral of my character."- Connell Barrett"Learn to get rejected elegantly, laugh it off, and know you're still enough."- Connell Barrett"There's nothing wrong with wanting to avoid rejection or not wanting to bother women. It's coming from a good place." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:29 Introduction03:42 Embracing Self-Worth and Confidence8:48 Navigating Conflicting Thoughts in Approaching Women11:53 Transforming Approach Anxiety into Growth Opportunities15:33 Unveiling the Barriers: Identifying What Stops You21:24 Rewiring Your Approach Mindset23:29 Joyful Connections: Redefining Approaching Rewards30:21 Taking the Leap Despite the Fear of Rejection33:59 Embracing Your Worth Beyond Acceptance36:11 Outro

Do you lack self-confidence with women? Do cute girls tend to see you as not attractive enough or not tall enough or not charismatic enough… not something enough? Low confidence makes you less attractive and leads to rejection and loneliness.It’s frustrating… but it’s fixable! If you want to learn how to be more attractive to women, you’re in luck. In this special “live coaching” episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett shares a game-changing coaching secret for the first time publicly. He helps his client Nick transform his confidence in just 45 minutes. How? Connell guides Nick through a powerful process called “The Confidence Code,” a tested formula that you can use to feel magnetic to women, instantly! Nick literally TRIPLES his self-confidence before your ears, in minutes.Use Connell’s Confidence Code. You’re about to go from low confidence to knowing how to be more attractive to women. Listen now!Quotes"I should focus on showcasing my own unique qualities and confidently pursue my romantic interests." - Nick"I’ve learned that fear breeds self-doubt, but embracing confidence leads to meaningful connections on dates." - Nick"I doubted my old belief and embraced a better, more truthful belief. I changed my body language to align with this new mindset."- NickFeatured in the episodeNick (Guest)Connelll Barrett (Host)Founder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:29 Introduction07:49 Unlocking Confidence: Inner Power over External Validation11:54 Overcoming Debilitating Beliefs in Dating14:54 Exploring Worth and Value in Dating22:21 Embracing Manhood: Redefining Masculinity30:08 Physical Exercise for Boosting Confidence34:06 Radical Authenticity: Transforming Dating Challenges39:14 Counter-Evidence: Challenging Limiting Beliefs44:12 Questioning the Masculine Archetype51:22 Exploring the Complexity of Masculinity56:00 Empowering Beliefs: Replacing the Old01:01:59 Confidence Kickoff: Embodying the New Belief01:11:25 Boosting Confidence: Daily Reinforcement and Proof01:15:06 Outro

Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers!That’s right! EVERY guy has a dating superpower. You just have to harness it. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you uncover YOUR special dating skill. He also shares 6 powerful tools that you can use to get more dates and more confidence. Listen now so you can make sparks fly and attract your dream girlfriend.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Asking meaningful questions that evoke emotions and encourage self-expression is what resonates with women. It's those questions that truly matter."- Connell BarrettResilience may not be glamorous, but it can attract an incredibly attractive companion. Embrace your resilience. It's a superpower."- Connell Barrett"Courage is the key to confidence... So be brave and believe in yourself.""- Connell BarrettChapters00:00 Introduction00:15 Unleashing Your Dating Superpowers08:23 Harnessing the Power of Resilience10:31 The Power of Persistence: Socializing Beyond Limits13:21 Unleashing Your Inner Courage: Embracing Fear in Dating17:20 Sparks and Connections: Tapping into Your Dating Superpowers15:07 Fear-Free Flirting: Unleashing Your Courageous Charm19:35 Mastering the Art of Asking Feeling-Based Questions21:40 Crafting Engaging Narratives for Dating Success25:51 Outro

So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf buddy?Your clothes can either make you MAGNETIC… or they can make you lonely and dateless.In dating, your looks are overrated, but your LOOK matters… a lot! Good style is essential. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Riane Bawalan, a professional stylist for men. Riane helps single guys look great, so that they can get more dates and look and feel more confident. Listen now, so you can look and feel hot and handsome, and attract a wonderful woman into your life.FOR STYLE HELP FROM RIANE BAWALAN:http://www.thegentlemansphotographer.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3BONUS TIPS: 8 STYLE RULES FOR GREAT FIRST DATESThe right clothes help unlock your confidence. In a Men’s Health survey, 78 percent of women said that dressing well is the hottest thing a man can do, and 85 percent said that a well-dressed man is sexier than a man with lots of money.Here are eight style rules for first dates (and dating in general.)1: Your shirts, pants, and jackets should be tailored for your body, or appear to be. The biggest style mistake men make? Baggy, ill-fitting clothes. Your duds shouldn’t be too tight, nor should they billow. Think somewhat snug.2: Own at least one pair of quality, dark denim jeans (blue or black). And please, no pleated khakis! (Be a hot guy, not a Helpful Honda Guy.)3: As for shirts, favor button-downs, polos, and quality tees. In an Esquire survey, women preferred plain white tees on a man more than any other kind of shirt.4: Have at least one pair of fun, stylish sneakers (NOT gym shoes), such as Stan Smiths or Chuck Taylors. As for dress shoes, consider a classic loafer, brogue, or lace-up Oxford (brown or black.)5: Be well-groomed, and smell absolutely amazing.6: Your hair (or lack thereof) should look “on purpose,” whether you’re rocking a cool fade, or shaving your head. Consider a consultation with a hair stylist.7: If you’re balding, keep it very close-cropped, or go full Kojak.8: Wear boxer-briefs. In a GQ survey, 65 percent of women preferred boxer-briefs on a man (compared to 19 percent for boxers and 5 percent for tightie-whities.) True, it’s only the first date, but it’s best to be prepared.Quotes:"Wearing clothes that reflect your personality and interests is a great icebreaker and conversation starter." -Riane Bawalan"Men should prioritize taking some time to revamp their wardrobe. It not only boosts your confidence and changes how you perceive yourself, but also influences the impression you make on others. ."- Riane Bawalan"People's clothing choices often reflect their mindset and lifestyle, with some not caring about what they wear. It's a reflection of their home or lifestyle."- Riane BawalanChapters00:15 Introduction03:11 The Importance of Well-Fitting Clothes09:10 Adding Color to Your Wardrobe: Embracing Versatile Neutrals11:38 Taking Control of Your Style: Haircuts and Shape-Ups13:03 The Magnetic Appeal of a Well-Groomed Appearance15:39 Fashion Choices: Judging a Man by His Style20:07 Footwear Essentials: Two Must-Have Shoes for Every Man23:07 Demystifying Denim: Slim or Athletic Fit, Four Color Options26:49 Expressing Confidence Through Style: Unleash Your True Personality33:06 Guiding You to Confidence: A Stylist's Expertise34:46 Unleashing Your Style Potential: Personal Styling and Photography Services36:12 Outro

Do you struggle with texting women? (Check.) Does approaching seem scarier than a haunted house? (Check.) Do your dates go nowhere, leading to the dreaded “friend zone”? (Check please!) Help is on the way. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you solve some of your toughest dating problems by opening up the Dating Transformation mailbag. Listen to Connell answer your questins, so you can send flirty messages, approach with steely confidence, make sparks fly on first dates... and attract your dream girlfriend!Quotes"Personalized openers spark interest and engagement by offering jokes, compliments, or fun questions that resonate with your match." - Connell Barrett"Mastering the art of text flirting involves playfully and respectfully expressing romantic interest to a woman, all while maintaining clear boundaries."- Connell Barrett"Unleash your true self and watch your confidence skyrocket, attracting an amazing girlfriend effortlessly."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnelll BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Chapters00:16 Introduction06:44 Texting Tips for Success: Cleverness, Clarity, and Emojis11:25 The Art of Playful Teasing and Surface-level Jokes13:56 Leveraging Cheeky Humor and Confidence in Your Photos17:25 Amplify Your Presence with Audio: Conquering Fear in Dating19:12 Unlocking Self-Assurance in Audio Messages21:29 Transforming Rejection into Opportunity23:46 Navigating Rejection on the Path to Love26:35 Escaping the Friend Zone: Ways to Make Your Intentions Clear29:35 The Link Between Body Language and Personal Confidence32:03 Using Physical Expressiveness to Ignite Attraction33:58 Building Intimacy through Gentle Touch35:12 Creating Playful and Comfortable Moments on Dates37:06 Outro

You want practical dating tips so you can stop doubting yourself, flirt with charm, and land a great girlfriend, right? Yet there’s so much advice out there! You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating. We’ve got you covered. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes the wise, witty Amber Brooks, editor-in-chief of DatingAdvice.com and DatingNews.com. A true dating expert, Amber knows what women want. She and Connell share 21 effective dating tips for introverts. So listen now! It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start attracting wonderful women as your most confident, authentic self.Quotes"Don't let hindrances hold you back; that's the true failure. Instead, push past them and open yourself up to meeting someone who will enhance your life for the better." - Amber Brooks“Engage sincerely with thoughtful follow-up questions to make her feel truly valued and heard.”. - Amber BrooksFeatured in the episodeAmber BrooksEditor-in-chief of http://Datingadvice.comWebsite: https://www.datingadvice.com/ FOR THE LATEST NEWS AND TRENDS IN DATING: www.datingnews.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Chapters00:14 Introduction02:12 Exploring Diverse Dating Approaches05:57 Unlocking Local Secrets: Specific Tips for Dating Success08:44 Breaking Free from Fear: Overcoming Barriers to Approach12:55 Learning from Awkward Experiences: Building Better Connections15:11 Embracing Normalcy and Respect17:48 Personalized pickups and genuine interest breed attraction.20:07 Making an Impact with Personalized Interactions22:41 Tips for Fostering Genuine Online Connections26:51 Building Relationships on a Granular Level32:01 Building Lasting Connections in the Online World37:02 Partnering with dating sites: Say no to Tinder, choose Match.40:56 First date etiquette and advantages.42:51 Key to dating success: Perseverance and resilience.45:38 Embracing authenticity without negativity.47:19 Outro

Have you ever been talking to or texting a cool, attractive woman, but you didn’t know how to ask for her number… so you lost out on the date? Or maybe you saw a group of women at a bar, and you wanted to approach, but you felt too intimidated… so you did nothing. Inaction can crush your confidence and keep you feeling lonely.Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 9 of his favorite “advanced dating tips” to help you take action, including how to ask for a number, and how to confidently approach large groups. Use these 9 moves to stop feeling lonely and START attracting women as your most confident, authentic self.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and you can feel the shackles of toxic masculinity tighten around your wrists.And you might be confused about how to date and flirt in the #MeToo Era (“Can I still make moves, or is that harassment?”)Today’s special guest can help you navigate what it means to be a single man in 2023, both on and off the dating landscape.In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes award-winning writer Alex Manley, author of the groundbreaking new book, “The New Masculinity: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.”A longtime dating editor for AskMen, Manley wrote “The New Masculinity” to give today’s men a blueprint to become more evolved, forward-thinking and progressive.And take it from Connell: Women LOVE evolved, progressive men.In this lively conversation, Alex shares a host of tips and insights on the art of being a better man, including… ✔ How to escape toxicity and anger, so you can be masculine as well as kind and open- hearted✔ Why you WANT to be “friend-zoned” by women (That’s correct! It can be a good thing.)✔ Three game-changing dating tips you can apply now, for stronger, more genuine connections✔ Why pretending to be an “alpha male” can hurt your dating prospects✔ Why you should NOT cold-approach random women (the rules have changed!), and what to do instead.Listen now, so that Alex Manley can help you go from fearful and confused about your sense ofnself, to awakening a true, fulfilling new masculinity.Quotes"Being mysterious and being withholding and not communicating with your partner is not a winning strategy. It might work on people who have certain self-esteem issues, but for a healthy relationship, you need to be open, honest, and communicative.".." -Alex Manley"It's important to remember that everyone has something to offer and something that makes them unique. You just have to be willing to look for it and appreciate it." - Connell Barrett"Friendships between men and women can be incredibly valuable and rewarding, and can teach us a lot about ourselves and each other." - Alex ManleyFeatured in the episodeConnelll BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationAlex ManleyDating Editor, AskMenhttp://www.alexmanley.com/https://www.instagram.com/alex_icon/TO LEARN MORE ABOUT “THE NEW MASCULINITY”:http://www.ecwpress.com/products/the-new-masculinityGO TO ASKMEN TO READ DATING ADVICE FROM ALEX MANLEY:http://www.askmen.comTO LEARN MORE ABOUT ALEX MANLY:http://www.AlexManley.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactChapters00:14 Introduction00:24 Unlock Your Authenticity with Man to Woman Communication15:19 New Book Guides Men in Changing World19:42 Unlearning Toxic Masculinity: A Wake-Up Call31:20 Female Friendship: The Key to Understanding Women24:50 Redefining Attraction: Confidence and Courtesy26:33 Unlocking Romantic Happiness in Relationships27:42 Recognizing the Multidimensional Nature of Relationships28:56 Embracing the Complexity of Self in Dating40:47 Career Success: The Secret to Dating Confidence51:05 The Myth of the Mysterious Man in Dating01:00:00 Unrealistic beauty standards harm your dating life01:05:00 The Power of Being Yourself, with a Touch of George Costanza01:17:00 Outro

You know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates.You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather.And the only thing worse than boring conversation is when your date is filled with….um [pause]… awkward [errrrr]… silences.And you know what that means: No second date.If you struggle coming up with good first date topics, you’re in the right place! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett—who’s had over 1,000 first dates!—shares his best tips for what to talk about, so you can choose topics that help you make romantic sparks fly.You’re about to learn…✔ The 5 best topics to talk about on first dates, to help create a strong emotional connection, as your best, authentic self✔ The topics to NEVER talk about on (make sure you don’t fall into these conversational traps!)✔ The one question you should ask ALL of your first dates, to help you create an emotional connection with ANYONE, even if you and your date don’t have much in common!Quotes"When you focus the conversation on her, on yourself, and on shared passions and interests, you create a powerful connection." - Connell Barrett"Authentic connections are formed through meaningful conversations that resonate with both of you."."- Connell BarrettListen now, so you can stop struggling with what to say on dates, and start discussing stimulating first date topics that heighten emotional connection… and help you land the dream girlfriend you want.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 Introduction00:20 Mastering First Dates: Expert Tips from a Dating Coach06:49 Creating Meaningful Connections: Making the Conversation about Passions10:01 Spark to Flame: Connecting Through Shared Passions12:30 Creating Deep Connections Through Emotional Experiences15:46 Emotionally Connecting: Unleashing the Power of Family and Travel Conversations17:51 Building Emotional Bridges on First Dates22:21 Embracing the Power of Genuine Conversations23:39 Outro

WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidenceGet ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.Quotes"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformationhttps://datingtransformation.comhttps://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationDr Robert GloverCo Author of “The Big Stick"https://www.drglover.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/Tony EndelmanCo Author of “The Big Stick""https://tonyendelman.com/https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:http://www.bigstickbook.comBUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-ebook/dp/B0C5N6VZ6C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0_encoding=UTF8&qid=1684431647&sr=8-1LEARN MORE ABOUT TONY, AND HIS INTEGRATED MAN COURSE:http://www.TonyEndelman.comLEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER, AND HIS COURSE AND BOOKS:www.drgolver.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH YOUR HOST, DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactChapters00:17 Introduction00:06:24 Breaking Free: Lessons from “No More Mr. Nice Guy”00:10:45 Unmasking Covert Contracts: Revealing Toxic Manipulation00:17:21 A Life-Altering Journey: Transformed by a Transformative Book00:22:42 Transformation Begins: The Profound Words That Started It All00:23:41 Unlocking Happiness: The Hidden Wisdom of Sitting Up Straight00:25:14 Shifting Mindsets: Embracing Gratitude and Positive Change00:30:28 The Liberation of Honesty: Harnessing Transformative Power00:42:11 Conquering Anxiety, Mastering Social Skills for Dating00:55:15 Embrace Your Authenticity: Action Speaks Louder01:03:41 Challenging the Perfection Myth: Women's Insecurities Revealed01:08:06 Revolutionizing the Dating Game: Unveiling Women's Perspectives01:20:47 Male Relationships and Success: The Vital Connection01:26:37 Integrated Man University or Integration Nation: Join the Transformation01:28 Outro

So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon.If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what to write on your dating app profile. Connell is about to teach you…✔ The biggest things NOT to write on your profile, and what to write instead✔ The one-line “hook” to use at the start of your bio that guarantees she’ll keep reading✔ How to write fun, flirty prompts on Bumble and Hinge that leads to matches and dates✔ The right way to end your bio that TRIPLES your chances of matching with her, and even make her send YOU the first messagePlus 11 more practical, tested tips that you can use today.Listen now, so you can stop struggling with online dating, and learn how to describe yourself on the dating apps—and start dating wonderful women!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Your dating profile is like a marketing campaign. Focus on what's in it for her, make it fun, and show her your personality”- Connell BarrettRemember, dating is a numbers game. Embrace the journey of going on multiple dates before finding the right person,"- Connell BarrettChapters00:06 Introduction00:16 Unlock the Secrets to Crafting an Authentic Dating Profile6:25 Writing an Irresistible Dating Bio: Hooks, Not Clichés10:11 Master the Skill of Writing to Capture Her Attention19:08 Unleashing Playful Humor: Going Beyond Clichés in Your Profile24:26 Crafting a Compelling Dating App Bio: The Power of a Call to Action27:21 Infusing Edge and Playfulness into Your Bio29:58 Crafting First Date Prompts that Leave a Lasting Impression34:53 Flirtatious Prompts: Captivating Genuine Connections37:06 Outro

OK, a quick joke.How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted to introverted men.Take it from your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, who happens to be a card-carrying introvert: What you THINK is a dating weakness is actually a dating strength. Women LOVE introverted men, as long as you channel your most authentic, attractive self—and learn the art of emotional connection.In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell welcomes dating expert Anthony Recenello, who helps introverted men upgrade their social skills so that they can make emotional connections with women. He and Connell share tons of tips on dating as an introverted man.Also, fun fact: Anthony used to coach Connell! Years ago, Anthony helped your host go from insecure and introverted to confident and downright magnetic to women. So, it’s like Jedi Luke Skywalker interviews Master Yoda.In this far-reaching conversation, Connell and Anthony help you get more confidence and more dates, and discuss…✔ How to be charismatic with women, even if you’re an introvert—without acting like someone you’re not✔ A simple, effective strategy to meet women off of the apps, without having to do approaches✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to dating as an introverted man, that Anthony gave Connell when they worked together✔ Why dating success is not about “picking women up” but rather about making genuine emotional connections✔ How to never “run out of things to say” on dates, so you have fun, flirty conversations with womenOh, and catch Anthony showing off his coaching skills on a brand-new dating reality show, “Love Always,” on Paramount Plus.Listen now, so that you can stop feeling insecure and start dating with confidence, while making genuine emotional connections—and doing it with total authenticity and respect for women.QUOTES"In like-minded communities, I found confidence, joy, and authenticity. It's not about bars and going out for me; it's about connecting with people who share my passions.”- Anthony RecenelloActive listening creates a powerful impression when you ask a question and allow someone to share without interruption. It shows your genuine interest in them and encourages them to open up further."- Anthony RecenelloFEATURED IN THIS EPISODEAnthony RecenelloFounder and Dating Coach of Wolf & GardenWebsite:https://recenello.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyrecenello/TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ANTHONY, OR TAKE HIS FREE CLASS:http://www.recenello.com/freeclassCHECK OUT ANTHONY’S NEW REALITY SHOW:https://deadline.com/2023/05/paramount-pansexual-reality-dating-series-love-allways-lexi-paloma-premiere-date-1235367102/FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactCHAPTERS00:00 Introduction00:19 Unveiling the Charisma Formula05:03 The Charisma Formula: Authentic Expression and Presence16:55 Enhancing Social Skills through Daily Socializing23:57 From Improv to Acting: How It Impacted Relationships28:25 The Three Keys to Confidence: Presence, Purpose, and Health37:15 Transforming Lives: A Dating Method for Introverts43:36 Boosting Introvert Confidence through Community Validation47:06 Delving into the Art of Flirting and Sexuality52:13 The Power of Intentions: Candid Conversations about Sex57:36 Expressing Good Intentions and Genuine Emotions01:03:16 Extroverted Friends: Do They Just Talk About Nothing?01:08:27 Mastering Presence and Purpose in Conversations01:15:32 Uncovering Biography Topics and Preferences in Discussions01:20:49 Making Better Connections: The Importance of Early Introductions01:27:00 OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com/

You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply.And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence.Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches.Let’s change all of that!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 23 of his best tips for starting conversations on the apps, so you can get women writing you back… and go on dates!Connell is about to teach you…✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to writing dating-app openers that start fun, flirty conversations✔ How to quickly write a personalized opener that makes her EXCITED to write you back✔ The 5 kinds of openers you never, ever want to send to women… and the 5 “power openers” that are sure to get her writing you back.✔ His 7 funniest copy-paste openers you can use to get girls giggling, just in case you get stuck with what to writeAnd you’ll learn how to start a conversation on a dating app while showcasing your best, most authentic personality… because women like you for YOU.Listen now, to STOP getting ghosted on the apps, and START having flirty conversations that lead to dates.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right?In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—offers 27 first date tips for guys, to help you make sparks fly.Get ready to learn…✔ The exact words to use to when asking her out, to get a “yes!” ✔ The 7 first-date questions you can ask to create a romantic connection✔ Connell’s top 3 ways to go for (and get!) the first kiss, in a way women love✔ A simple, 3-step system to create mutual sparks while authentic, so that your date becomes attracted to the REAL you.PLUS: Connell shares his top tip for instant first-date confidence.Bad first dates are no fun, and they can make you want to give up on dating. Listen now to all 27 first date tips for guys, to go from frustration… to making sparks fly, and doing it as your true, most authentic self.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to!In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic. Connell gives it to you straight. Creepy “pickup” tricks don’t work. Scripted lines don’t work. Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t work. What does work? Unleashing the power of Radical Authenticity to awaken your most attractive self. Because women like you for YOU. You’re about to learn the secrets of being Radically Authentic, such as…✔ How to be confident with women, so you can approach cute girls and get dates… even if you’re not tall or great-looking✔ The 5 steps you can take TODAY to put you on the path to finding your dream girlfriend.✔ How to “spark attraction” just by speaking your honest, authentic self, and never “run out of things to say”✔ PLUS: At the end of the podcast, Connell gives you a practical, one-sentence marching order that will transform your confidence and your dating success IF you put it into practice.Dating can make you feel frustrated and rejected. It doesn’t have to be this way! YOU ARE ENOUGH as your authentic self to gain confidence, flirt with charm… and find a wonderful woman who loves you for YOU.Listen now, to go from self-doubt and loneliness to confidently dating wonderful women who like you for your TRUE, authentic self.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in.That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen in and use ALL of the tips.If you’re like Chris, you’ve had his struggles: He could get dates, but women kept saying the same thing after a date or two: “You’re a nice guy, but I’m not feeling a connection. But we can be friends.”In this episode, Connell gives Chris—and you—a simple plan that helped Chris go from hearing “Let’s be friends” to “Let’s make out!”These tips transformed his dating life, and they can do the same for you.You’re about to learn…✔ Why you’re getting stuck in friend zone, and how to escape✔ How to harness the power of “man-to-woman communication” to ignite romantic sparks on dates✔ The one-sentence “power compliment” to give your date to keep you out of the friend zone✔ How to never “run out of things to say,” so that you can be flirty, funny and authentic—because women like you for YOU!Connell helped Chris go from the friend zone to fun, flirty dates. And you can fix the friend zone, too! Listen now.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s Bestselling Dating Guide for men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” your step-by-step guide on how to get a girlfriend:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Chapters00:00:00 Introduction00:03:05 The three social contexts00:05:46 The man-to-woman communication00:10:01 Book your free call today with Connell Barrett00:11:42 Coaching Chris00:17:05 Chris’ typical dates00:21:02 The seven essentials of great dates00:33:47 Get the amazing book of Connell, “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”00:35:12 Continuation in coaching Chris00:37:09 Chris on his man-to-woman communication00:45:49 How to be yourself in dating00:47:58 The four escalators00:46:58 Connell’s tips to Chris01:03:47 Outro

So you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit.Well, what if you could get great dates and find your ideal girlfriend, and never have to swipe on an app, or nervously hit on random women?In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating expert who helps men meet women by using their social circle!In this episode, Kramer, the founder of Inner Confidence, will help you…✔ Meet smart, attractive women not by swiping on the apps but by using your social connections✔ Create a step-by-step plan to get more dates, no nerve-wracking approaches needed✔ Uncover the biggest dating mistake that you don’t know you’re making, and help you fix it✔ PLUS: Connell and Robbie talk about unlocking the power of true authenticity, so that desirable women will like you for YOU.Listen now so you can stop endlessly swiping on the apps and start meeting great women using your social connections. It’s time to take your dating confidence to the next level.To Learn More or to Work with Robbie:http://www.innerconfidence.com/QuotesWomen are going to be incredibly flaky and the hotter they are, the more likely they're going to be flaky. - RobbieOnline dating is just riddled with flakes. Like you're going to get at least 50% to 75% flakes if the girls are really hot. - RobbieThe best dating hack I've found is to shift from a hunter mindset of chasing one girl at a time to a farming mindset of cultivating an environment with a favorable ratio. - RobbieOur HostConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationBook Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for youClick this link:https://datingtransformation.com/contact/Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXFeatured GuestRobbie Kramerhttps://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramerhttps://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramerhttps://innerconfidence.comTo Learn More or to Work with Robbie:http://www.innerconfidence.com/Chapters00:00 Introduction00:04:23 A sample story of heart surgeon on his dating life00:07:03 An Internal tip and external tip from Connell00:15:25 Book a call with Coach Connell to give you advice in the dating space00:17:00 Introducing our guest, Robbie Kramer00:19:35 Robbie’s problem before with his dating life00:24:04 Robbie’s breakthrough moment00:35:00 Why are women flaky?00:43:52 Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”00:45:35 Robbie’s practical tips to be successful on dating00:54:25 Another successful story from one of Robbie’s friend01:00:17 Rapid fire question time01:08:56 Takeaways from RobbieProduced by Heartcast Mediahttp://www.heartcastmedia.com

You know what sucks more than a Vin Diesel movie? When you’re talking to (or texting) a woman you’re into, and you just know you’re being boring. You’re stuck in your head. You ask dull questions in “interview mode.” You’re not sure what to say.You can feel her losing interest in you, and sure enough—she goes off to find a flirty guy who can make her laugh.It can make you feel boring, unattractive, and get you stuck in the dreaded “friend zone.”In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett gives you his secret weapon to be flirty and funny, whether you’re texting a new match on the dating apps, or looking to charm your Saturday night date.Connell will teach you how to…✔ Turn a boring conversation into something fun and flirty, using a powerful technique from improv comedy that can transform your flirting skills✔ Get out of your head and in the moment with women, so you can make sparks fly with your words✔ Text women in a way that builds a genuine, fun connection that helps you get more datesAnd of course, you’ll be able to do all of this as your best, most authentic self—without any creepy “pickup artist” nonsense.Listen now, to take your conversations with women from dull and boring to funny, flirty… and smash out of the friend zone!Our HostConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationBook Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for youLink: https://datingtransformation.com/contactGet the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXQuotesYou don't need to be great looking. You don't have to be tall. I mean, if you can be funny on a date that's sexier than six pack abs. - ConnellChapters00:00 Introduction01:26 You don’t need to be a comedian to get the girl02:59 Use the core concepts in improv comedy08:25 Book a call with Coach Connell or Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”09:49 An example of “If this is true, what else is true?” concept16:11 Another example of “Yes Ending” concept21:03 Recommended actions to elevate your gameProduced by Heartcast Mediahttp://www.heartcastmedia.com

Pop quiz! Do you want to confidently approach and date beautiful women? (OK, that was adumb question—sort of like, “Do gingers have souls?” Of course they don’t!)But chances are, fear keeps you from breaking the ice with women you’d love to meet… and it’scrushing your confidence and costing you dates. Let’s fix this!You’re about to listen to an actual coaching session, in which (soulless ginger) dating coachConnell Barrett helps his client overcome his fear of approaching women.Xavier, 31, was struggling with “approach anxiety.” He couldn’t even say hello to attractivestrangers, let alone flirt or ask women out. “I feel paralyzed with fear,” Xavier told Connell.After this session with Connell, Xavier’s fear of approaching vanished, and he’s been confidentlymeeting (and dating) some incredible women.In this special live-coaching episode, you’ll hear the session that transformed Xavier’s datinglife. You’re about to learn…✔ The secret to unstoppable confidence when you approach women✔ The “magic words” women love to hear when you meet them stores, parks, or the gym✔ How to approach with charm and at bars, and get HER flirting with YOU✔ The biggest mistake men make when approaching, and what to do insteadConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationBook Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for youClick this link:https://datingtransformation.com/contact/Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXQuotesThe main cause of approach anxiety is fearing that a woman is going to, quote unquote reject you. And then you are going to perceive that as you are not attractive and not worthy of women. - ConnellTo establish a connection with a woman, express your genuine interest and attraction, and then suggest taking her on a date to capitalize on the momentum of the interaction. - ConnellChapters00:00:00 Introduction00:03:00 Online dating experience00:07:53 Top 3 tips for online dating00:17:53 Book a call with Coach Connell00:19:27 Getting a live coaching relationship with Xavier00:24:42 Introducing Xavier and his background00:28:02 Xavier’s approach anxiety moments00:36:08 The Direct and Indirect way of approaching00:39:38 Approaching a woman after getting a coaching from Coach Connell00:43:16 The Day approach versus The night approach00:58:04 Get “Dating Sucks But You Don’t” today on Amazon00:59:35 More dating tips about daytime approach versus nighttime approach01:08:30 Having fun or going to meet women at night?01:12:51 Planning your logistics when meeting women01:22:42 Approaching group of women in difficult settings01:27:23 ConclusionProduced by Heartcast Mediahttp://www.heartcastmedia.com

WARNING! This podcast episode contains tested dating tips that have been known to make so-called “nerdy guys” downright magnetic to bright, beautiful women. If you don’t want more dates, more confidence or learn how to get a girlfriend, do NOT listen! Capeesh?So, you want to confidently attract a great a relationship, right? But you sometimes compare yourself to “alpha males,” and you feel that you might be too nerdy, or not charismatic enough, to find a great relationship.This self-doubt leads to loneliness, feeling inferior to other men, and perhaps settling down with an inflatable woman. And no one wants that!In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett talks to a fantastic fellow coach who can help you gain confidence and get dates, even if you’re “nerdy” or introverted.Brian Pippard is the founder of Date Quality Women. He reveals how he went from nerdy and uncool to dating bright, beautiful women. And much like Connell teaches, Brian did it by being authentic and genuine, NOT some creepy “pickup” guy.In this episode, Brian will teach you how to…✔︎ Channel your authentic personality in ways that women find attractive—even if you’re a little nerdy and not extroverted.✔︎ Approach women the right way in the daytime, so you can be charming to women, and not creepy.✔︎ Write fun, flirty dating-app openers that get responses on the apps, so you can get more dates.Listen now so you can stop feeling nerdy and unattractive and start feeling confident in your authentic self, and find a wonderful woman who likes you for YOU.TO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH BRIAN:www.datequalitywomen.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S BEST-SELLING DATING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXChapters00:00 Intro02:07 our guest was a nerdy guy03:34 advice that didn’t work10:49 The Aha moment22:16 What to say and not to say27:42 Approaching women in daytime33:29 Advice for online dating openers41:00 Most unforgettable moment was in coaching others

Would you love to be a LOT more confident when you see an attractive you want to talk to …but the fear of rejection holds you back? Or maybe there’s a girl you know who you’d love to ask out, but you don’t want to get turned down, or be seen as creepy.The fear of rejection is one of the biggest problems that today’s men face, which is why in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, we turn to the renowned coach Shana James to help you become rejection-proof… and learn how to be a confident man.Shana has coached hundreds of men in all areas of life, from dating to business to mindfulness. She also shares her wisdom every week on her Man Alive podcast. (More than 300 5-star reviews!)Today, Shana and Connell have a lively conversation that’s jam-packed with funny stories and practical advice, so that you can…- Get EXCITED about your dating life, instead of see it as a drag.- Bring true authenticity and vulnerability to your dates- Take those romantic risks—like approaching and asking out your crush—with total confidence, and no fear of rejection.- PLUS: Shana shares one of the best tips from her Rejection Proof coaching program.Listen now, so that Shana can help you go from anxiousness and fear of rejection, to authentic confidence and becoming rejection-proof! It’s time to learn how to approach women.Want to learn how to be a confident man? You’re in the right place!TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SHANA’S COACHING PROGRAMS FOR MEN:Shanajamescoaching.comGIVE HER PODCAST A LISTEN!Man Alive PodcastBECOME A MAN WHO’S REJECTION PROOF:shanajamescoaching.com/rejection-proof/Quotes:"We want the men to feel alive and lit up and turned on and not this toxic masculinity that we see out there." - Shana"I'm so grateful that there are men out there teaching that authenticity is awesome and sexy. It warms my heart." - ShanaSpecial mentions in the episode:What 1000 Men's Tears RevealTed Talk by Shana JamesCheck it here: https://youtu.be/GGIq5_Ll4zk Featured in the episode:Shana JamesLove and Leadership Coach, Facilitator, AuthorLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shana-james-3004065 Podcast: https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast Website: https://shanajamescoaching.com Subscribe: https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters:00:00 Intro02:21 Shana's Ted Talk 05:50 Why did Shana start coaching? 08:36 How to approach women with confidence10:30 How Shana helps people achieve a successful dating life13:11 How to be rejection-proof17:24 Game-changer tips from Shana39:09 Advice for introverts41:48 ConclusionProduced by Heartcast Media.https://www.heartcastmedia.com/

How to Start a Conversation on a Dating AppChances are, you struggle when it comes to how to start a quality conversation on a dating app. Maybe you get few (or zero!) good matches, or the connections that you do get don’t lead to dates.And if you struggle on the apps, it can lower your confidence and make you want to give up on dating.The great news? This episode of Dating Transformation will give you some game-changingonline-dating tips to help you know exactly how to start a conversation on a dating app.Today, Connell is joined by Helen Virt, one of the bright, innovative minds behind the Hilydating app. Hily—which stands for Hey, I Like You—is among the top 10-ranked dating apps in the USA. And in Connell’s opinion, it’s the best dating app for men… period.Connell and Helen talk about how Hily has grown so fast (25 million users worldwide), and how you can use Hily to take your dating life to the next level.This episode will reveal…-The biggest online dating mistake you’re making… and you don’t even know it!-Connell’s favorite dating-app opener that works 80% of the time-Exactly what to write on your bio to ignite quality conversations-PLUS: How Hily’s innovative features can help you learn how to start a conversation on adating app.So listen now, and go from endlessly swiping and swiping… to starting quality conversations on Hily, or any dating app.CHECK OUT HILY ON INSTAGRAM:@Hily_AppGO TO THEIR WEBSITE FOR MORE DATING HELP:Hily.comFOLLOW THEM ON TWITTER FOR DATING TIPS:@HilyappGO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:DatingTransformation.com

How to Talk to a Beautiful WomanDo you want to learn how to talk to a beautiful woman, but you struggle with what to say? Are you not sure what to write when you’re sending a dating app opener, or texting a girl? Do you run out of things to say on dates?Not knowing how to talk to a beautiful woman leads to awkward silences, bad dates, and major frustration.In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell talks to a man who can help you always know how to talk to women, so that your dates, texting, and conversations become fun and flirty.Tripp Kramer—author of the how-to dating book “Magnetic”—is a master at the art of how to talk to women. His insanely practical “How to Talk to Girls” podcast is one of the most popular pods in the dating industry. And has a LOT of wisdom to share today.In this episode, Tripp Kramer will help you to… -Avoid “interview mode” and have engaging conversations with women-Stop sending texts that go nowhere, and start texting your way to more dates -Use his top 3 “game-changing tips” for how to talk to a beautiful woman-PLUS: Tripp and Connell talk about how to be flirty WITOUT being creepyListen now so you can stop running out of things to say and start getting girls giggling, flirting, and meeting you for (great) dates.CHECK OUT TRIP’S PODCAST:How to Talk to Girls PodcastVISIT HIS INSTAGRAM FOR MORE TIPS AND ADVICE:@trippadviceTO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH TRIPP:Trippadvice.comGO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:DatingTransformation.com Quotes:"This crazy emotional rollercoaster we experience happens when we’re going through growth or going through something that challenges us." - Tripp Krazmer"As long as they do the homework and they stay consistent, it still shocks me sometimes, even though I'm the one who has the program for them." - Tripp Kramer"Being able to be successful with women will also give us good results and accomplishments in other areas too such as career and personal development." - Tripp Kramer"Shyness is temporary and it will not always be part of our personality." - Tripp Kramer Featured in the episode:Tripp KramerCEO at Tripp AdviceWebsite: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tripp-kramer-2b2a686/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice Podcast: How to talk to Girls by Tripp Kramer Book: "Magnetic: Cultivate Confidence, Become Rejection-Proof and Naturally Attract The Women You Desire" https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BOFHRSW/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0 Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters:00:00 Introduction01:54 Tripp’s dating problems in the past06:03 Connell approaches a woman for the first time06:56 Tripp’s breakthrough moment14:26 Tripp steals Tom Green's girl18:37 Learning from mistakes in dating24:39 How to take action30:23 Success stories34:58 How getting good with women is a gateway drug to success39:21 How to talk to girls42:35 Dos and don'ts of texting women45:34 Game-changing tip to get better dates49:14 Advice for the dateless 50:33 How to contact TrippProduced by Heartcast Media.https://www.heartcastmedia.com/

It’s the age-old question: “What do women want from men?” If you’ve ever had your approach rejected, or you THOUGHT a date went great but then she ghosts … well, you know what it’s like to struggle with how to read women.Special guest and TV celebrity Dr. Viviana Coles is here to help! Dr. Viviana is a sex and relationship coach who spent seven seasons as the expert on Lifetime’s “Married at First Sight.” Her mission? To help YOU have the most fulfilling intimate relationship—including great sex—of your life.On today’s Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell asks the brilliant Dr. Coles to “crack the code” on how to read and connect with women, and she does not disappoint. In this episode, Viviana will teach you what women want from men, and she’ll show you… -The simple, charming way to approach a woman at a social event, and make her smile-The way women WANT you to move in for that first kiss-How to confidently—and respectfully—lead a new relationship to the bedroom for the first time, in a way you’ll both love-PLUS: Connell shares a great piece of love advice from Viviana’s bestselling book, “The 4 Intimacy Styles”—a tip on how to keep the wonderful woman you make your partner Also, she’ll explain why penis size does NOT matter nearly as much as you think, and what matters to women instead.Listen now, to go from feeling confused by what women want from men, to knowing exactly what women want from men… so you can attract (and keep!) an amazing woman.TO GET DR. VIVIANA COLES’ BOOK OR LEARN ABOUT HER COACHING:doctorviviana.comSIGN UP FOR HER NEWSLETTER FOR TIPS, ADVICE, AND INFO ON HER UPCOMING COACHING PROGRAMS, FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES: Houstonrelationshiptherapy.comGO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:DatingTransformation.comQuotes:"In dating, you need to be polite and have some tact, but other than that, authenticity is most important." - Dr. Coles"I want to help people round out their intimacy style." - Dr. ColesBook Mentioned:The 4 Intimacy Styles: The Key to Lasting Physical IntimacyCheck it here: https://doctorviviana.com/product/buythebook/ Featured in this episode:Dr. Viviana Coles, President and Lead Psychotherapist at Houston Relationship Therapy, President of the National Sex Therapy Institute, Director of Intimate Connections at Erosante Luxury Retreats, Resident Intimacy Expert at Bloomi, and Certified Sex Therapist. Featured on "Married at First Sight."Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorviviana Twitter: https://twitter.com/DoctorViviana Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana Website: https://doctorviviana.com Connell Barrett, Founder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters:00:00 Intro01:52 Dr. Coles' background07:50 What happened on Dr. Coles' first date with her husband?10:34 The Intimacy Quiz17:24 Connell & Viviana discuss coaching20:34 Thoughts on couples who have less intimacy24:50 What makes men attractive to women?27:04 What is the problem with the provider-mentality among men?33:11 Tips for single men 35:36 What men get wrong on dates40:05 What makes a great date?51:30 Dr. Coles' upcoming couples retreat53:47 ConclusionProduced by Heartcast Media.https://www.heartcastmedia.com/

How to Flirt with Girls OnlineDo you struggle with how to flirt with girls online, not to mention when you approach and when you’re on dates? Do you think your conversation might be boring to women, causing them to ghost you or reject you? Not knowing how to flirt with girls online can cost you lost confidence and fewer dates.But we got you! Today’s incredible guest will help you learn how to flirt with girls online, whether you’re approaching, messaging on an app, or texting before your big date.Instagram Influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar joins Connell on the Dating Transformation podcast to talk about her wildly popular dating podcast, We Met At Acme, and to give you tons of useful dating tips from the female POV. Lindsey knows the way women think, so listen now and a TON of practical dating tips, including…-How to approach women at the gym or at bars in a charming, non-creepy way that the ladies love-What to text on the apps, and what NOT to text-A Tinder opener that’s charming, flirty and funny… and that gets girls writing you back-PLUS: Lindsey reveals what you should definitely NEVER say to a woman you just met, and what to say insteadListen now, so you can finally get out of your head, and learn the art of how to flirt with girls online and IRL too.FOLLOW LINDSEY ON INSTAGRAM, WHERE SHE OFFERS TONS OF DATING TIPS FOR MEN:@wemetatacmeCHECK OUT HER ADDICTIVE DATING PODCAST:We Met At AcmeGO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS:Wemetatacme.comGO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:DatingTransformation.comQuotes:"Men usually listen to fix problems, whereas women listen to be empathetic towards the problem." - Lindsey Metselaar"Women want something funny, women always want to laugh." - Lindsey MetselaarFeatured in the episode:Lindsey MetselaarCreator and Host of We Met At AcmeLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-metselaar-6ba01a5bWebsite: wemetatacme.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: Dating Coach - Connell Barrett - Dating Coach For Men WorldwideInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters:00:00 Introduction01:28 The origin of "We Met at Acme"03:28 Why Lindsey started a podcast05:13 What is unique about dating millennials?08:04 Lindsey’s worst date11:18 Why if you're feeling confused she's probably not that into you12:43 What are some signs that women are interested?17:37 Being vulnerable in dating23:54 How men and women approach dating differently28:13 How to text a woman without being weird31:34 Topics women want to talk about on dates33:23 Best practices for approaching women35:27 What do women want to see in a dating app profile?43:55 Dating tips from LindseyProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com/

How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream GirlfriendDo you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.Help is on the way! Dating coach Connell Barrett can help you fix ALL those problems, starting TODAY, using the power of “radical authenticity.” The Dating Transformation podcast will teach you how to gain confidence, flirt with charm, and find a great girlfriend—and do it all as your best, authentic self… NOT some “pickup artist” creep.In the debut episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell welcomes a VERY special guest—thought leader and bestselling author Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”Connell’s conversation with Dr. Glover will teach you…-The secret to instant self-confidence with women-Dr. Glover’s favorite technique to stop being “too nice” with women, and awaken yourbest, most magnetic self.-3 things you should NEVER say when flirting, and what you should say instead-PLUS: Dr. Glover shares a simple move you can use TODAY to get over your fear ofrejection and start confidently approaching women.Listen now, so you can go from dateless “Mr. Nice Guy” to your most confident, authentic you.LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER AND THE COURSES HE OFFERS:drglover.comGO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:DatingTransformation.com Quotes:"Nice guys seek approval and validation from others. Everything a nice guy does or says is at some level calculated to gain someone's approval or avoid their disapproval." - Connell"There's a certain percentage of women out there who's going to love the you that you are just the way you are." - Dr. Robert Glover"A certain percentage of women out there are going to love you just the way you are, as the REAL you." - Dr. Robert Glover Featured in the episode:Dr. Robert Glover Author, therapist, coach, educator, and public speakerLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428Twitter: https://twitter.com/dr_r_gloverYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover Website: https://www.drglover.com Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters:00:00 Introduction01:58 What is the nice guy syndrome?12:14 Why do nice men seek women’s approval?15:38 Monogamy and dating are not in our DNA22:06 Women and security36:11 Embrace rejection 51:01 Game-changing tips55:36 ConclusionProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com/

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