Podcast:The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis Published On: Mon Jan 22 2024 Description: Hey there, Dave and Ashley Willis here, and we just want to welcome you to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the core of marriage – communication. We share our personal journey on how to get your spouse to really listen. From being present to avoiding distractions, we spill the secrets. Learn tips on approaching a non-listening spouse with grace and curiosity. We explore side-by-side communication and tackle gender differences in processing info. Wrap it up with the magic of giving each other time to process, and watch your relationship transform through effective communication. Grab a seat, tune in, and let's deepen those connections! --------------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Takeaways Listening is more important than talking in communication. Being present and avoiding distractions is crucial for effective listening. Approach a spouse who doesn't listen with gentleness and curiosity. Side-by-side communication and understanding gender differences can enhance connection. Give each other time to process information and thoughts. --------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Importance of Communication 01:30 Learning to Listen Better03:10The Listening Exercise 04:07 Being Present and Avoiding Distractions 05:04 Approaching a Spouse Who Doesn't Listen 06:32 Being Gentle and Curious 08:23 Assuming and Zoning Out 09:20 Side-by-Side Communication 10:44 Non-Accusatory Approach 11:37 Understanding Gender Differences 17:29 Processing Time for Men 20:12 Giving Time to Process 20:43 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices