Diary of Someone with a Pattern of Avoidance and Withdrawl
Diary of Someone with a Pattern of Avoidance and Withdrawl  
Podcast: The Flynn Skidmore Podcast
Published On: Wed Jun 19 2024
Description: In today’s episode of the Flynn Skidmore podcast, I discuss a personal pattern that has challenged and defined a part of who I am in relationships. I discuss the times I've walked away from relationships, leaving others feeling hurt due to my lack of communication. However, it’s not a simple story of complete avoidance; it's a pattern that doesn’t define all my relationships, as many have grown stronger and deeper over the years. However, the pattern of withdrawal absolutely exists for me, and I want to share my insights with you.Here’s what we’ll unpack today:I've been on a journey of introspection over the last few months, during which I've confronted this pattern directly, striving to understand the dynamics at play.The balance of conditional and unconditional love in relationships, and how I've historically used love perhaps more as a tool for change rather than as pure affection.How this reflection led to a broader understanding of my interactions and how I've begun reaching out to repair past relationships, transforming feelings of guilt and avoidance into opportunities for growth and honesty.The discussion will then expand into a broader philosophical exploration of love, growth, and personal responsibility in relationships.Join me as I reveal my struggles with closeness, value, and the desire to not just be, but to be better—and how this quest shapes the way I connect with others. This is about transforming personal insights into actionable wisdom that fosters deeper, more real, and honest relationships.Connect with Flynn:Ways That I Can Help YouSubscribe to my relationships and purpose newsletter where I give you the tools and frameworks to take action on everything you want in your life in under 5 minutes.InstagramTikTokSubmit your written reviews to THIS form to be entered into a giveaway to win a 30 min session with me! We'll pull 1 winner at the end of the month.1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here.