Tom Bilyeu | Co-founder & Host of Impact Theory
Tom Bilyeu | Co-founder & Host of Impact Theory  
Podcast: The Excellence Project with Eric Worre
Published On: Mon Jun 19 2023
Description: Eric and Marina Worre interview Tom Bilyeu, co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and the co-founder and host of Impact Theory, about his intriguing relationship theories. He talks about his worst ever fight with his wife Lisa - over a cup of tea - and reveals the number one predictor as to if you will be in the half of couples who get divorced or the half that stay together. (1:03:20) Show Notes:  00:00 - Eric introduces Tom. 01:41 - Tom explains why although he is actually a lone wolf, his relationship with his wife Lisa is the number one priority in his life. 05:26 - Tom talks about how the worst fight he and his wife Lisa ever had - over a cup of tea - led to a relationship breakthrough. 11:38 - Tom details how arguments between significant others are actually caused by each person’s insecurities and how realizing this and articulating it can improve the relationship.  15:25 - Tom unveils how he and Lisa decide who wins an argument. 18:19 - Tom reveals his fascinating ideas about how to make a relationship work.  19:31 - Tom divulges the number one predictor as to if you will be in the half of couples who get divorced or the half that stay together.  23:44 - Eric shares what has worked for him and his wife Marina in their relationship. 28:32 - Tom discloses that he underwent ritualistic scarification when he got married and how marriage evolves over time and why it’s important to realize that going in. 34:56 - Tom explains what to do if only one person is willing to work on a relationship. 38:03 - Tom explains that we all have hidden values that we aren’t aware of and reveals how they affect us and our relationships. 46:44 - Tom tells us about how he thought 2022 was the best year ever while his wife Lisa felt it was the worst year of their marriage. 53:41 - Marina asks Tom to share his wife Lisa’s “couples playing tennis” analogy.  59:21 - Tom wraps up by giving us some of his ideas for how to navigate working with our significant other. Resources From This Podcast:  The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell https://www.amazon.com/Power-Myth-Joseph-Campbell/dp/0385418868 Glossary of Terms: Tragedy of the Commons: Refers to a situation in which individuals with access to a public resource (also called a common) act in their own interest and, in doing so, ultimately deplete the resource. Steel Man Argument (or Steelmanning): Steelmanning is the practice of addressing the strongest form of the other person's argument, even if it's not the one they presented. Questions or Comments?  Do you have questions you would like me to answer in future podcasts or comments on the show you'd like to share?  Email me at podcast@networkmarketingpro.com