What Are Some Dangerous Thoughts Children Battle?
What Are Some Dangerous Thoughts Children Battle?  
Podcast: All Pro Dad Podcast
Published On: Mon Mar 10 2025
Description: Our kids are facing battles in their minds. Everything from school pressures and expectations to personal identity and relationships are weighing on them. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the mental load kids are carrying and how dads can help them manage it well. **WARNING** We do mention and discuss suicide in this episode. If this topic is triggering for you, skip the portion from 29:33–31:20.Why This MattersKids who are burdened by too many negative thoughts begin to see a dip in confidence, self-esteem, and motivation. Key TakeawaysAll kids battle their thoughts: Children commonly struggle with intrusive thoughts like "No one likes me," "I'm stupid," and "I can't do it.”Intrusive thoughts have a source: Often intrusive thoughts result from developmental limitations, environmental influences, and past trauma or modeling. Parents can help kids combat dangerous thoughts: Help them practice open communication and positive thinking.Important Episode Timestamps●       (00:00 - 00:00:54) Introduction & Meet the Hosts ●       (00:54 - 01:14) Big Question: What Are Some Dangerous Thoughts That Kids Battle? ●       (01:14 - 03:32) Childhood Negative Thoughts●       (04:05 - 05:41) The Five Most Common Dangerous Thoughts in Kids●       (05:41 - 07:52) Social Media is Reinforcing Negative Thoughts ●       (07:52 - 10:17) Recognizing When Kids Are Struggling●       (11:14 - 12:59) The 'Fred in Your Head' Strategy●       (14:10 - 18:00) Dads Can Create a Safe Space for Kids to Share Their Feelings●       (19:34 - 25:50) Modeling Positive Thinking for Kids ●       (31:20 - 32:52) Pro Move of the Week: Ask This Question APD Pro Move:To help combat persistent or severe intrusive thoughts or behaviors in your children, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or mental health professional.  All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 62 – How to Raise Emotionally Strong Boys5 Thoughts That Are Dangerous For KidsWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com